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Dear Dr. Betty,

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have this crazy fantasy of masturbating while I watch my girl suck off another guy. Is this wrong? How can I bring up this subject with her?

Dear T,

No it's not wrong to have this fantasy. In fact it's quite common. Just don't expect your girl friend to go for it instantly. It's your fantasy not hers. You bring it up just like you did with me. Keep it light-hearted and humorous. No pressure.

Dear Dr. Betty,

After viewing your drawings of labias and seeing many pictures, I noticed that I do not have very much of an inner labia at all. I cannot see anything even resembling an inner labia when I check myself out. Is this healthy and normal?

Dear K,

Yes, I have a girlfriend who has no inner labia at all. She never posed for me unfortunately. Since most women are so concerned by any of their inner lips extending beyond the outer lips, I never did draw a vulva with none.

Dear Betty,

You've mentioned in several videos on youtube, that one should enjoy the smell of sex..and the smell of their own "situation." I agree....until it comes to me receiving oral sex. I am a clean person and always make sure to shower before hand, but when the juices start flowing, the insecurites I feel over my scent can sometimes inhibit me from cumming. I stop enjoying the moment and think, "I bet he wants to gag right now!"

Hi,

Thanks for talking with  me on the phone today. I thought of another question later in the day.

My 2-year-old son is constantly tugging on his penis when he's not wearing a diaper. My husband and I simply ignore it. (Can you believe my son's grandmother scolded him? I thought I was prude!)

Dear Dr. Betty,

I am 22 and female-bodied, currently dating a 20 year old male. With my current partner and past male partners, I've experienced a bizarre, unpleasant sensation during vaginal intercourse any time my partner's penis hits my cervix. I wouldn't describe it as painful, but definitely not a feeling that I enjoy. I've recently discovered that this is due to an unusually retroverted uterus - my gynecologist tells me that my uterus has not only an extreme backward tilt, but also sits distinctly to the left side of my body.

Hello, 

Dear Dr. Betty,

My problem is something on which I've done a lot of internet research, and I've yet to find a satisfying answer to my problem. I began attempting masturbation (with my fingers) at the age of 13, and had no orgasms. It felt nice, but I never climaxed. Manipulation of the clitoris was not satisfying to completion, nor was vaginal fingering. When I was 18, I bought a vibrator, but it did not make me come, the incessant buzzing only made me numb. Reluctant to lose my virginity to a fake penis, I waited until I was 23, got fed up, and bought a dong.

Hi Ladies,

LOVE LOVE LOVE your vids, just watched the latest one about the man losing his erection waiting for his wife to have her orgasm. This brought to mind my question: how do I introduce after play for him to continue with pleasuring me after he is finished, there has only been one man I've ever known willing to "keep going" after he had climaxed. Every other man I've been with (I'm not inexperienced) has considered the sex act to be OVER when they cum. How do we change this?

Dr. Betty,

I fear that I am grossly misinformed about my body and perhaps the female anatomy in general, but alas, I think I'll ask my question anyway. At the age of 19, I've decided that it's time for me to penetrate my vagina, but for some reason, I can't get the little bugger open! I've been following your instructions--playing with myself, taking my time, exploring my nether regions--but it hasn't been working. As you can imagine, this is seriously frustrating!