There are no thought police...it's normal to look outside your relationship for inspiration.
If you want to increase the intensity of your orgasms, edging - getting in front of an orgasm and holding back - will do the trick.
You are a self-sexual which is a valid lifestyle.
Having sexual fantasies will help you reach orgasm.
You have to banish negative thoughts to experience pleasure. Sexual fantasies work best.
We have to engage our minds to reach the heights of pleasure. There's no thought police so allow yourself to go there.
It's time for you to have a love affair with yourself while wide awake.
When we engage our minds through fantasy and indulge in some magic herb, you orgasms can take flight.
Be creative instead of consuming canned images of porn.
Don't let the thought police and moralists censor your dirty fantasies.