Married Woman Who Fantasizes About Other Women

I am still very much attracted to women, I only masturbate to female porn, and I would really like to have another female encounter.
Hi,
I want to know about the safest sexual practices I can use, besides abstention. I am lesbian, single and want to insure I'm not bringing anything home I don't want. Are gloves and dental dams the only option, besides getting everyone tested? Sucking on a dental dam is about a wonderful as sucking on a balloon and if guys think rubbers suck. They should try to use a dental dam.
Any suggestions?
Thanks,
E
Dear E,
Dear Dr. Betty,
I was recently talking to a friend of mine and was telling him something that I really hadn't talked to anyone about before. I am a 20 year old student, I define as lesbian, I masturbate via clitoral stimulation only, and have never been intimate with another person.