Dear Dr. Betty,

I have fulfilled many of my sexual curiosities and/or fantasies. The one thing I can't seem to get over is how you got past the fact that people you knew would judge your career choice about sex and that they would see you naked. I have lost many friends by various sexual things I've done...like being naked in front of my mom, showing a picture of my penis, letting a friend give me a blowjob and then telling his wife I seduced him (lie), telling people I tied bottles to my foreskin and showed them, etc.

Dear S,

Dr. Betty,

Hi Dr. Betty!

I am bisexual, and I came to terms with this about two years ago. I have been with my boyfriend now for five years. When I told him I was bisexual he told me he already knew (HAHA). We discussed it and he's been very supportive and accommodating. We've had two threesomes with friends of mine since then, and we are looking for something a little more permanent. The problem is, I don't know how to find these magical women who are not disgusted by the notion of being in a triad relationship.

My boyfriend and I are both in our mid/late 20's, and have been together for nearly six years. We have a very close and loving relationship, and sex is still great, since we both know how to please each other.

Hi Dr. Betty!

Dr. Betty

Hi Betty-

I'm wondering what exactly is meant by "Don't Ask Don't Tell". Is it that the one partner in the couple knows that the other is seeing someone else, and just doesn't want to know details? Or is it that the partner literally has no idea that the other is seeing someone else?

Hi Dr. Betty,

I am 21 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost 7 years. He is the only person I've ever had sex with. I love him but I just can't shake the feeling about being with another guy. I want to but the guilt will kill me and I love him too much to just end our relationship. As well we have a family together I don't want to jeopardize that.

I just don't know what to do. I can't stop thinking about it and I feel guilty and helpless.

Any advice?

Thank you
T.

Dear T,

Dear Betty,

I have a boyfriend that really loves me, cares for me and supports me. We opened our relationship for about two years but he was too jealous and broke up with me. We got back together. But now it is almost impossible for me staying monogamous. I cheated on him and now I feel like I am a horrible person.

Hello! Thanks for your time.

I don't know how to respond to people about this. I know the insult isn't justified, but I do like sleeping with multiple guys. People say I put myself at risk too much. Not just about STDs but also for pregnancy. The funny thing, is that I risk being preggo much less often than lots of ppl in relationships do! Like if I hookup a few times a month vs most people who have sex with their partner at least a few times a week.