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My Go to Trick for Orgasm
Once full arousal is reached, I allow myself to get close to coming, but pull back and breathe deep, dropping back down.
I Believe Sex is How People are Controlled Which Puts it at the Heart of Politics
My cognitive dissonance kicks in when I consider the glaring omission of human sexuality in political discussions.
How to Best Use a Vibrator
The number one sex toy is some kind of additional lubrication.
My Vagina is tight and dry...can I orgasm?
It's been said that life begins at 40 and since 60 is the new 40; I'd say you have some good times ahead of you.
How Can I Stop My Fantasies?
Your fantasy is a way to rehearse those moments of childhood humiliation, except by ending with an orgasm, you're reclaiming your power from those nasty authority figures.
G-Spot Stimulation Makes Me Have to Pee
Next time you’re fucking, YOU stimulate your clitoris at the same time with however you do it when you masturbate.
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Why the Fucking You Get Isn’t Worth the Fucking You Get
Masturbating to orgasm right before having vaginal sex is one sure way to make partner sex more enjoyable.
The Art of Getting Apart
Some of us have to face the truth that we are not cut out to be life-partners with anyone but ourselves and our creative projects.
Move Over Kegels...To Keep "Toned" It's About Squats
Now when I talk to a client about PF muscle toning, I'll focus more on letting the pelvic floor relax.
Betty's Rock 'n Roll Orgasms Technique
Betty's uses this technique in her private practice and we teach it in our Bodysex workshops.
Learning Ejaculatory Control

Although society has yet to honor a sexually experienced woman, I’ve gotten a lot of personal satisfaction knowing what I want when it comes to partnersex. It’s always a pleasure to be with a person who is self-assured— confident in their ability to give and receive pleasure.

A Woman's Erection Needs 20-30 Minutes of Adequate Clitoral Stimulation
Once a woman understands she can have both clitoral stimulation with vaginal penetration, it ends this discussion.
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Since Using Vibrator, Can't Orgasm During Oral/Manual Sex

Dear Betty and Carlin,

First, thank you so much for you work! You helped me finally accept myself as a sexual being. You're a great example of how beautiful women are when they're strong and sexually empowered. When I grow up, I want to be just like you two! ;-)

Is It a Vaginal Infection Or Is It All In My Mind?

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have a question about vaginal infection and wish to get your expert answer. Thank You.

Doctor, I suspect myself having vaginal infection since January 2009... I visited doctor and she gave me a type of cream which called candid cream and some fluconazole 200mg tablet, the doctor also advised me to wash my genital area with salt water. However, It seem din recover after applied the cream and have the medicine...

How Do We End Slut Shaming?

Dear Betty,

I am a student at Wayne State University in Detroit, Michigan; a sex-positive feminist and a huge fan of yours! Last semester I met a like-minded young woman, Maria, who has become a great friend of mine and we share our love for you and often discuss sex and various issues surrounding women. We have recently come across an issue that is bothering us both quite a bit.

Lost All Feeling in My Clitoris

Dear Dr. Betty,

Okay, I really need help! When I was younger I had orgasms that when they came they were off the charts, they were so intense that I cried. Now I don't have orgasms, and rarely with masturbating. I try to fantasize about all kinds of naughty things, but nothing. I'm not comfortable using a vibrator either.

How Can I Keep My Vagina Lubricated?

Dear Dr. Betty,

I'm 20 years old, I've been active since I was 15, my first partner was as well a virgin and was my so call "first love" sex was great I felt so arroused and satisfied. We broke everything off about two years ago...since Ive had about 4 partners and have not felt the same since...until my recent one....

Can All Vaginas Handle Big Penis?

Dear Dr. Betty,

I am a male of average endowment and not seeking some perverse thrill by asking the following question, its something I always wanted to know. I understand the vagina is 6 inches in depth and is very elastic when it comes to width. But what about these abnormally large penisis over 10 inches, can all women handle these without suffering physical damage? Do some women refuse to have sex with superlarge tools? It seems to me that there has to be a limit on how large (length) a vagina can tolerate.

Dear J,

Can Only Orgasm From Rough Clit Play

Hi there

Thanks for such an amazing site. I am 22 years old and i am an incredibly sexual person...i have and always have had a huge sexual appetite. I have been masturbating since i was a little girl, earliest i remember was about 3...i would masturbate sometimes 10 or so times a day, includng in childcare etc. I would almost always manage to get caught, either by my mother or someone else ( i have a vague memory of being caught by a childcare giver)