You were smart to bring in a vibrator to make your sex life more enjoyable with less jaw and neck pain from oral.

Our ultimate preference for genitals is organic oil - almond, apricot, jojoba or coconut.

Women and men's confusion over genital imagery and what their own sex organs should look like comes from porn primarily.

Do not leave the vibe one place but move it around or move your body underneath it.

Stay away from doctors and never again speak those disgusting words "low libido, anorgasmia and dyspareunia."

There is surgery to remove scar tissue. For now, stop suffering painful sex.

In a sense your genitals have been mutilated and removal of some of the scare tissue might help.

Use your relaxed tongue on his arm to show him what would feel better.

BEST solution: Do your own clitoris during sex with a partner.

To deal with more intensity, make sounds that meet what you feel, breathe deeply and thrust into the sensation instead of pulling back.