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My Vibrator is Too Intense

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Betty Dodson

Hi Betty

Thank you sooooo much for your advice! My Mystic wand arrived today and I am pleased to say I have had my first orgasm! I have to say though, i was a bit disappointed.

It wasn't very intense - and it took 45 mins to get there! I am hoping it will get quicker and easier to climax the more I use this new toy. Can you just tell me....should I be moving this wand around for best results or keep in one place? Not sure how to use exactly!

Thank you Betty :)

S

Good News!

Now, you get to learn how to use the vibrator. Do not leave the vibe one place but move it around or move your body underneath it. Any vibrator left on the clitoris for too long will numb you out. And 45 minutes would be closer to average. I still take an hour or more for a really good come. What's your damn hurry?

The whole idea behind masturbation is that we can take our time to enjoy the sensations. You have your FIRST orgasm and instantly you are critical and complaining about it. Shame on you! Time to be more loving toward your body, your orgasms and yourself! Go back and reread the links I included. The information didn't get through to you, so read it more than once and keep practicing.

Dr. Betty

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