You can retrain your clitoris to orgasm with less intense stimulation OR you can bring your vibe to partner sex.

Every clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings. Size doesn't matter at all.

Actually you have sensitized your clitoris by stimulating it on a regular basis.

All women have a clitoris. Time to get out a mirror/a good light and look at your vulva.

As we age, our orgasms change. Be flexible...keep masturbating...and find a sex coach

I always recommend using additional lubrication for all forms of penetration.

You can upgrade your masturbation technique to orgasm from a lighter touch/stimulation.

So why would it matter if you use a vibe while you're fucking?

You are most likely having an orgasm.

It's up to us to explain that and not expect them to read our minds.