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My Go to Trick for Orgasm
Once full arousal is reached, I allow myself to get close to coming, but pull back and breathe deep, dropping back down.
I Believe Sex is How People are Controlled Which Puts it at the Heart of Politics
My cognitive dissonance kicks in when I consider the glaring omission of human sexuality in political discussions.
How to Best Use a Vibrator
The number one sex toy is some kind of additional lubrication.
My Vagina is tight and dry...can I orgasm?
It's been said that life begins at 40 and since 60 is the new 40; I'd say you have some good times ahead of you.
How Can I Stop My Fantasies?
Your fantasy is a way to rehearse those moments of childhood humiliation, except by ending with an orgasm, you're reclaiming your power from those nasty authority figures.
G-Spot Stimulation Makes Me Have to Pee
Next time you’re fucking, YOU stimulate your clitoris at the same time with however you do it when you masturbate.
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Why the Fucking You Get Isn’t Worth the Fucking You Get
Masturbating to orgasm right before having vaginal sex is one sure way to make partner sex more enjoyable.
The Art of Getting Apart
Some of us have to face the truth that we are not cut out to be life-partners with anyone but ourselves and our creative projects.
Move Over Kegels...To Keep "Toned" It's About Squats
Now when I talk to a client about PF muscle toning, I'll focus more on letting the pelvic floor relax.
Betty's Rock 'n Roll Orgasms Technique
Betty's uses this technique in her private practice and we teach it in our Bodysex workshops.
Learning Ejaculatory Control

Although society has yet to honor a sexually experienced woman, I’ve gotten a lot of personal satisfaction knowing what I want when it comes to partnersex. It’s always a pleasure to be with a person who is self-assured— confident in their ability to give and receive pleasure.

A Woman's Erection Needs 20-30 Minutes of Adequate Clitoral Stimulation
Once a woman understands she can have both clitoral stimulation with vaginal penetration, it ends this discussion.
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Can't Find My G-Spot

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have watched countless tutorials, read countless books on the matter, but for the life of me cannot find my own G Spot. When I masturbate and actually let a finger wander inside my vagina, I can't tell any structure or texture apart in there. It all feels the same. I'd like to be able to find it and try to ejaculate, but I'm not even sure if I've ever come before.

Guys Say My Clitoris is Too Big

Dear Dr. Betty,

I'm 20 yrs old. I been feeling really self conscious about my vagina or clit in particular. I have been told by a few sex partners that my clit is "huge"...I'm too embarrassed to ask my GYN. But it pisses me off/hurts my self esteem when guys say this to me.. Do you think I should get that surgery?

What do you think I should do, if anything?

Thankx

Dear Self Conscious,

Son Likes to Wear My Panties

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have a problem with my son who is 16. Recently he has taken a liking to wearing my panties. He thinks that I don't know about his fetish because he replaces my panties carefully, but I know. Last week I discovered that two or three of my sanitary pads were missing, and yesterday I found one pad in a basement wastebasket. Obviously Bob had masturbated on the pad. I can't help thinking he wanted me to find the ejaculation. In the past I had noticed a few Kleenex tissues with ejaculate on them in his bedroom but that seemed very normal to me.

A Man Who Ejaculates But No Orgasm

Dear Dr. Betty,

I realize you are mostly a woman's advise page, but I admire your work and was hoping you could shed some light on a very confusing issue. I cannot seem to find answers elsewhere. I am a middle aged man in a 20 yr marriage. My wife is the only women I have ever been with. For the last several years I have been experencing ejaculation (premature?) without much if any orgasm. I just come but have none of the "intense feelings" I used to have just seems to sort of dribble out. Anorgasm??

What are My Boyfriend's Chances of Contracting Herpes If I Have No Sign of an Outbreak?

Hi!

I was diagnosed about a year ago with herpes simplex 2 virus! I recently started dating someone who knows i have herpes and during our first time together decided not to wear a condom and to perform oral sex without a Dental dam.

I have only had that first initial outbreak and nothing ever since, what are his chances of contracting the virus even if i had no signs of an outbreak? Is it safe to keep having unprotected sex?

S

Dear S,

Is Anal Penetration For a Guy Similar to Vaginal Penetration For a Woman?

Dear Betty--

I have a question I'm hoping you can answer. I have always been a heterosexual male, but I have also always been curious about what the sexual experience is like for a woman. Obviously, some acts are identical--manual stimulation, oral sex, and (passive) anal intercourse are available to both. However, vaginal intercourse is not. So one must be contented with anal intercourse.

Do Large Labia Run in Families?

Dear Dr. Betty,

Is the size/ shape of a woman's labia genetically linked? i.e. If a woman has large Labia does that mean her mom/ sister's are likely to have the same? Do things like sexual intercourse, masturbation, Child berth contribute to "Large" labia?

Dear J,

Good question.