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Can't Find My G-Spot

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Betty Dodson

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have watched countless tutorials, read countless books on the matter, but for the life of me cannot find my own G Spot. When I masturbate and actually let a finger wander inside my vagina, I can't tell any structure or texture apart in there. It all feels the same. I'd like to be able to find it and try to ejaculate, but I'm not even sure if I've ever come before.

Gathering the information on G Spot orgasms has made me take into account my past orgasmic experiences, which seem paltry in comparison to these super orgasms. Any advice, or any help for finding my little G spot?

Dear R,

You are living proof of why I dislike all the hoopla around the stupid G-spot. Your primary sex organ is your clitoris. All those glowing reports of squirting and gushing are 90% fantasy crap to get women to buy g-spot toys, books and DVD's. I have a chapter in my book Orgams for Two. Also search"First Time Orgasm" and "The G-spot Revisited" and read that too.

After you develop orgasms with your clitoris, you can play around with all those esoteric spots inside the vagina which is, after all, the birth canal with a minimum of nerve endings. Your clit has 8,000 so start enjoying it.

Dr. Betty