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Hello Betty,

I have been married for a little over a year now and my husband has just expressed to me our sex life in boring him. We never have sex. I love sex and ask for it all the time, but he always rejects me, but the other day he explained he wants to sleep with other women and that he doesn't find me as sexually attractive anymore. He suggested a threesome with another woman or another man. I have a hard time with this. I connect strong emotion to sex and I feel I would get very jealous to invite another woman into the bedroom. My husband sees sex as entertainment. I've always been told threesomes ruin marriages. I've never been with a woman, and I am not very confident about this. What is your opinion in bringing another person into the bedroom when married?

Thanks

Dear A,

First off, I'm wondering why you want to stay married to a man who rejects you sexually after only one year of marriage? He sounds like a jerk. Threesomes can be fun if the couple is already having a good sex life. I would hope that if he did bring in another woman, you would run off with her. Threesomes don't ruin marriages but husbands who sexually insult their wives would sour any marriage.

Dr. Betty