At 40, your body is changing and will continue to do so especially during and after menopause.

The solution lies with her NOT you.

When we engage our minds through fantasy and indulge in some magic herb, you orgasms can take flight.

Sensitizing your clitoris takes time. It's about lubricant, practice and an open mind.

Control your own clitoral stimulation during partner sex...use lube and have a fantasy. Masturbate regularly to create desire and self-love.

Masturbation supports all forms of sexual expression with a partner.

A more accurate statement would be: “A vibrator used correctly will sensitize a clitoris.”

Keep practicing and in time you can upgrade your masturbation technique.

As you become more aroused, your pelvic floor muscle will automatically contract.

Organized Religions that condemn masturbation along with other forms of sexual repression are the culprits.