All women are capable of orgasm. We just need to connect to our bodies.

You can upgrade your masturbation technique and stop humping blankets.

I was Betty's "stunt cunt" and my vulva and orgasm were broadcast on national television in Norway. It was surreal and worth it.

There is surgery to remove scar tissue. For now, stop suffering painful sex.

In a sense your genitals have been mutilated and removal of some of the scare tissue might help.

Use your relaxed tongue on his arm to show him what would feel better.

To deal with more intensity, make sounds that meet what you feel, breathe deeply and thrust into the sensation instead of pulling back.

You can upgrade your masturbation routine and increase the intensity of your orgasms.

How about having both kinds of stimulation at the same time, clitoral and vaginal?

My answer is YES, take your own virginity.