At 40, your body is changing and will continue to do so especially during and after menopause.
When we engage our minds through fantasy and indulge in some magic herb, you orgasms can take flight.
Sensitizing your clitoris takes time. It's about lubricant, practice and an open mind.
A more accurate statement would be: “A vibrator used correctly will sensitize a clitoris.”
Most women can't orgasm from penetration alone. Your clitoris is your primary sex organ.
Keep practicing and in time you can upgrade your masturbation technique.
We are all magnificently different.
There is no way a clitoris can atrophy.
It will take time but you can change the type of clitoral stimulation you use to achieve orgasm.
She may need some rest but you can't break your clitoris.