You can resensitize your clitoris to lighter stimulation but if your vibe works...
STOP taking antibiotics! The next time you get a UTI, use D - Mannose Powder.
Having sexual fantasies will help you reach orgasm.
That hyper sensitivity in you clit usually means you have just had a small orgasm.
Our inner and outer vulva lips do become engorged with sexual stimulation.
I think you had a fast come but didn't recognize it, and that's when clitty shuts down to recover after firing off all 8,000 nerve endings.
Women have an internal clitoris that can be stimulated post-trauma to achieve orgasm.
That burning sensation is signalling the stimulation is too strong and too direct on a sensitive organ with 8,000 nerve endings.
Women have an internal clitoral system so you may be able to achieve orgasm depending on the type of FGM.
If you've been leaning on furniture to orgasm, it will take time to re-sensitize your clitoris to stimulation with just your fingers.