Your first contact with your vulva should be with your hands. Then, as you age, including a vibrator can enhance your pleasure.
Step by Step instructions for using your barbell.
Stay with your hands for a slower buildup and keep going. You'll get there.
Every woman with an intact clitoris can orgasm. We create sexual desire by arousing our genitals.
If you practice edging, building up and pulling back to increase sexual tension, one BIG one is quite enough for most of us.
Orgasm is an intense sensation but it's not painful and it can't kill you. Pleasure is always positive for the body.
You need to pull up with your pc muscle instead of pushing out.
Women have an internal clitoral system so you may be able to achieve orgasm depending on the type of FGM.
I no longer use the word "anorgasmia" as it's just too clinical and cruel. I much prefer the term preorgasmic.
Yes, get a dildo so when your lucky dick wears out the dance can continue.