Do not leave the vibe one place but move it around or move your body underneath it.

I was Betty's "stunt cunt" and my vulva and orgasm were broadcast on national television in Norway. It was surreal and worth it.

In a sense your genitals have been mutilated and removal of some of the scare tissue might help.

You can retrain your clitoris to orgasm with less intense stimulation OR you can bring your vibe to partner sex.

Actually you have sensitized your clitoris by stimulating it on a regular basis.

So why would it matter if you use a vibe while you're fucking?

Given your late start at 45, I would suggest you simply accept your electric friend.

I'd trust my body and have your orgasm when the spirit moves you.

Find a guy who is vibrator friendly and use it on your clit while he's paying attention to moving inside your vagina.

Betty had a private session with a Kenyan woman who had been the victim of FGM as a young girl. Fingers-crossed, we headed into genital show & tell and everything shifted.