Our inner and outer vulva lips do become engorged with sexual stimulation.

I think you had a fast come but didn't recognize it, and that's when clitty shuts down to recover after firing off all 8,000 nerve endings.

If you practice edging, building up and pulling back to increase sexual tension, one BIG one is quite enough for most of us.

Orgasm is an intense sensation but it's not painful and it can't kill you. Pleasure is always positive for the body.

The average woman has dangling inner lips of a darker shade.

Women have an internal clitoris that can be stimulated post-trauma to achieve orgasm.

First time anal penetration is best done by you alone.

You might want to consciously begin to tone your pelvic floor muscle.

Everything you've described sounds pretty average so not to worry.

His fingering was enough to cause little vaginal tears as he had no idea what he was doing.