Hi Betty,
After being with my husband for a few years, and a few other men prior, I have noticed that my breasts are not sensitive during sex. My nipples are the same way. The only time I have feeling, and usually tenderness, is "that" time. I've done some research online and have found nothing. I might not have dug deep enough, but I'm curious as to why my nipples are no fun for me.
Hello Betty,
Dear Betty,
I'm a 21 going on 22 year old woman with a great shyness to getting naked and having sex with my F.W.B (friends with benefits) He's older then I am and we've done it more then four times since we met (which was almost about a year ago now) , but I'm still shy every time we had intercourse! The only time I'm actually not shy and panicking about having sex with him was when I'm stone cold drunk!
Can you please give me some tips on how to stop this shyness/panicking/nervousness without having to resort to drinking?
Dear A,
Hello Betty,
You and Carlin made a video response to a submission I made quite some time ago about not being able to take off my bra during sex (titled "I simply can't take off my bra during sex"). I have made some progress but would like to inquire further about specific steps I should take in un-learning my extremely negative attitude towards my chest.
Hi Dr. Betty,
I'm only in my thirties and yet my pussy hair is going gray...like a lot! We all know that the hair on our heads goes gray with age but I guess I've never really thought about pussy hair turning gray too. I'm too young for a gray pussy!! Do all women go gray down there?
I think I'm going to shave my pussy bald. Don't want to see all that gray hair. Makes me feel old.
C
Dear C,
According to my workshops and private sessions, women are letting their pubes grow out. I honestly prefer pubic hair to a bald pussy.
Hi Dr Betty,
Let me preface this by saying I have a very unique situation, but that I feel many women out there with asymmetrical breasts might go through the same feelings I experience.
Dear Betty,
Dear Dr. Betty,
First of all, I just want to thank you so much for spreading the important knowledge about the world of sexuality. I have had a progressive upbringing with a mother who was never shy to tell me the in and outs of sex. But your site has given me a more in depth knowledge about how sex “really works” and it’s not all about the penis going into the vagina. I also appreciate encouragement you have for masturbation, as I think no one can ever know your body better than yourself.
Dear Dr. Betty,
I am a 20 year old engineering student. For the last two years I have been unable to orgasm when having sex or mutually masturbating with my lover. I can only orgasm alone. This has taken a negative toll on my lover's self-esteem. Lately I have wanted sex less despite having just acquired our own space to play, and he told me that he is now feeling unloved. I think I am turning myself off, before and during sex, with my body image and an unhealthy sexual/romantic upbringing. I just do not know where to start tackling these issues.
