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Hi Betty,

After being with my husband for a few years, and a few other men prior, I have noticed that my breasts are not sensitive during sex. My nipples are the same way. The only time I have feeling, and usually tenderness, is "that" time. I've done some research online and have found nothing. I might not have dug deep enough, but I'm curious as to why my nipples are no fun for me.

I'd love to get more aroused because my husband, or myself, is playing with my breasts. One thing I did notice, was that the majority of women who also share the lack of sensation have large breasts, like myself. I'm curious if the extra amount of breast tissue makes the nerve endings less sensitive or if it's just the lay of my land. Thank you for your help and the time you took to read this. I love your Youtube station as well!

Warmest Blessings and Many Thanks!

B

Dear B,

This is an interesting question. I never responded to breast play in my youth most likely because I had small titties. In my late thirties, I began to stimulate my right nipple to include my breasts during sexual activity. I pinched and tugged on my nipple with my free hand while the other hand held the vibrator in the best place for my orgasm. For a period of time I could feel a particular tingle right before I came which I really enjoyed. Then a few years later it disappeared. Why? I have no idea. Just no explaining all the mysteries of the human body especially when it comes to sexual response.

I do know that some men who constantly include nipple play during sex have nipples that gradually get larger and more sensitive over time. Maybe it's just a matter of paying attention to a body part during sexual arousal that works. Occasionally I will squeeze and pinch a nipple during masturbation but I can't honestly say it's all that hot. As long as my clitoris and PC muscle work, I'm pretty happy. Let me know what you discover.

Dr. Betty