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My Go to Trick for Orgasm
Once full arousal is reached, I allow myself to get close to coming, but pull back and breathe deep, dropping back down.
I Believe Sex is How People are Controlled Which Puts it at the Heart of Politics
My cognitive dissonance kicks in when I consider the glaring omission of human sexuality in political discussions.
How to Best Use a Vibrator
The number one sex toy is some kind of additional lubrication.
My Vagina is tight and dry...can I orgasm?
It's been said that life begins at 40 and since 60 is the new 40; I'd say you have some good times ahead of you.
How Can I Stop My Fantasies?
Your fantasy is a way to rehearse those moments of childhood humiliation, except by ending with an orgasm, you're reclaiming your power from those nasty authority figures.
G-Spot Stimulation Makes Me Have to Pee
Next time you’re fucking, YOU stimulate your clitoris at the same time with however you do it when you masturbate.
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Why the Fucking You Get Isn’t Worth the Fucking You Get
Masturbating to orgasm right before having vaginal sex is one sure way to make partner sex more enjoyable.
The Art of Getting Apart
Some of us have to face the truth that we are not cut out to be life-partners with anyone but ourselves and our creative projects.
Move Over Kegels...To Keep "Toned" It's About Squats
Now when I talk to a client about PF muscle toning, I'll focus more on letting the pelvic floor relax.
Betty's Rock 'n Roll Orgasms Technique
Betty's uses this technique in her private practice and we teach it in our Bodysex workshops.
Learning Ejaculatory Control

Although society has yet to honor a sexually experienced woman, I’ve gotten a lot of personal satisfaction knowing what I want when it comes to partnersex. It’s always a pleasure to be with a person who is self-assured— confident in their ability to give and receive pleasure.

A Woman's Erection Needs 20-30 Minutes of Adequate Clitoral Stimulation
Once a woman understands she can have both clitoral stimulation with vaginal penetration, it ends this discussion.
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Masturbation Saved Our Marriage

I am now in my early '70s. I now masturbate beside her in bed, in the shower, or at the computer with my large XXX collection.

Why Don't I Enjoy Clitoral Stimulation?

First off, THANK you for living and breathing! This site has helped me realize that I am not alone in wanting to explore and own my sexuality as a woman!

The first and most important question I have is as follows:

I can only cum by stimulating the areas around my clitoris. I've tried stimulating it before, but any kind of pressure feels tender and hurts. Likewise, I find that after I cum (when using a vibrator) I have to quickly remove it or it hurts almost immediately. What is going on?!

Dear L,

Should I Become an Escort?

Dear Betty and Carlin,

I am hoping that you can give me some advice in regards to entering into sex work. I have the opportunity to take up work as an escort in October, but am not sure whether or not to do it. I'm a student that could really use the cash but have never had sex with someone I am not in a relationship with and don't know how I would feel in the moment when it's time to get laid/paid.

Can You Get a UTI Using a Dildo?

Hi Dr Betty!,

Yet another question. Can one contract a UTI by using a dildo for both vaginal and clit stimulation? After doing that (no anal play involved), I got a wicked one that went into my kidney and I'm a little apprehensive about getting off again using that method. (Peeing fire is definitely not fun!)

I know you are not an MD, but thought your priceless experience might be able to shed a little light on things.

M

Dear M,

Need Advice on Lesbian Safe Sex

Hi,

I want to know about the safest sexual practices I can use, besides abstention. I am lesbian, single and want to insure I'm not bringing anything home I don't want. Are gloves and dental dams the only option, besides getting everyone tested? Sucking on a dental dam is about a wonderful as sucking on a balloon and if guys think rubbers suck. They should try to use a dental dam.

Any suggestions?

Thanks,
E

Dear E,