As far as I know, I have never had a G-spot orgasm nor have I ever ejaculated. However, I do know many of my orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I've also enjoyed those little ten minute maintenance orgasms that release tension.
Marijuana & Sex: Confessions of a Periodic Pot Head
Thousands of years before the time of Christ, the cannabis hemp plant was Earth's largest agricultural crop that produced the majority of fiber, fabric, lighting oil, paper, incense and medicines. Hemp was also the primary source of essential food, oil and protein for humans and animals.
Should I Tell My First Lover That I'm a Virgin?
Dear Betty & Carlin
My Boyfriend Claims He Doesn't Fantasize
Dear Betty,
Masturbation Saved Our Marriage
I Think I'm Afraid to Orgasm
Dear Betty,
How Can I Control Myself & Not Go All the Way?
Dear Betty, (Oh,this is exciting=D)
Why Don't I Enjoy Clitoral Stimulation?
First off, THANK you for living and breathing! This site has helped me realize that I am not alone in wanting to explore and own my sexuality as a woman!
The first and most important question I have is as follows:
I can only cum by stimulating the areas around my clitoris. I've tried stimulating it before, but any kind of pressure feels tender and hurts. Likewise, I find that after I cum (when using a vibrator) I have to quickly remove it or it hurts almost immediately. What is going on?!
Dear L,
Should I Become an Escort?
Dear Betty and Carlin,
I am hoping that you can give me some advice in regards to entering into sex work. I have the opportunity to take up work as an escort in October, but am not sure whether or not to do it. I'm a student that could really use the cash but have never had sex with someone I am not in a relationship with and don't know how I would feel in the moment when it's time to get laid/paid.
I Can Only Orgasm Squeezing My Legs Together
Hi, Betty.
I would first like to say that I LOVE your website. I'm 16 and have always had a lot of sexual curiosity and I love when people, like yourself can speak freely about a topic that has, unfortunately been so down played and criticized by our society. Thank you and Carlin for all you do.
Can You Get a UTI Using a Dildo?
Hi Dr Betty!,
Yet another question. Can one contract a UTI by using a dildo for both vaginal and clit stimulation? After doing that (no anal play involved), I got a wicked one that went into my kidney and I'm a little apprehensive about getting off again using that method. (Peeing fire is definitely not fun!)
I know you are not an MD, but thought your priceless experience might be able to shed a little light on things.
M
Dear M,