You'll increase your pleasure if you engage your pc muscle.

Your GF can begin to practice expanding her vagina by using the pelvic floor muscles during masturbation.

Just proceed with caution and continue to enjoy yourself and your new lover.

Our pleasure repressed society thanks to most organized religions puts a huge emphasis on vaginal intercourse.

When we aren't wet due to nerves or whatever, always use some kind of organic massage oil for all manual touching of genitals.

Climb out of your "Olympic pool of olive oil" and tune into your your clitoris.

You can upgrade your masturbation technique and stop humping blankets.

One favorite way I handled this was to announce with great enthusiasm that my favorite sex toy was my massage oil.

When the pelvic floor muscle is weak and you cannot hold back urine.

It sound to me like you are experiencing "female ejaculation."