Consider the possibility that your masturbation technique needs improving.

It would be nice if you were more accepting of your vulva as a place of beauty and power.

STIs happen and there's no reason to feel shame or deny yourself pleasure.

Consider sharing masturbation together so you can see how each of you handles your sex organs.

My first thought was doing Kegel exercises and improving your pelvic floor muscle tone.

Unless you are seriously bearing down at the moment of orgasm, you will not shit, pee or fart.

If you've never masturbated, now would be the time to learn about self-pleasuring.

You have every right to enjoy your body, have an abundance of partners and all the orgasms you want as long as you play safe, stay healthy and your sexual activity doesn't interfere with the rest of you life.

Question why almost all organized religions loathe the body and human sexuality.

Betty's feminist classic Liberating Masturbation was the inspiration for the VM. It only we celebrated pleasure as much as tragedy.