Water based lubes are to be used with a latex product like condoms then oil is best.

It's always a good idea to urinate after partner sex.

Control your own clitoral stimulation during partner sex...use lube and have a fantasy. Masturbate regularly to create desire and self-love.

All women can enjoy regular orgasms through regular masturbation practice.

Your GF can begin to practice expanding her vagina by using the pelvic floor muscles during masturbation.

Our pleasure repressed society thanks to most organized religions puts a huge emphasis on vaginal intercourse.

When we aren't wet due to nerves or whatever, always use some kind of organic massage oil for all manual touching of genitals.

I see no conflict in using your oil.

One favorite way I handled this was to announce with great enthusiasm that my favorite sex toy was my massage oil.

Our ultimate preference for genitals is organic oil - almond, apricot, jojoba or coconut.