You can resensitize your clitoris to lighter stimulation but if your vibe works...

That hyper sensitivity in you clit usually means you have just had a small orgasm.

If you practice edging, building up and pulling back to increase sexual tension, one BIG one is quite enough for most of us.

Women have an internal clitoris that can be stimulated post-trauma to achieve orgasm.

First time anal penetration is best done by you alone.

His fingering was enough to cause little vaginal tears as he had no idea what he was doing.

That burning sensation is signalling the stimulation is too strong and too direct on a sensitive organ with 8,000 nerve endings.

If you've been leaning on furniture to orgasm, it will take time to re-sensitize your clitoris to stimulation with just your fingers.

You have your fingers and hands and a brain to conjure up erotic images.

Most important is to enjoy what feels good and communicate when something is uncomfortable.