Before you make yourself available to boys, I hope you know how to have an orgasm with yourself from masturbation.

BEST solution: Do your own clitoris during sex with a partner.

Creating a context where you can take back control can be healing.

We have all been asked to live in shame, guilt, and silence, while life quietly, relentlessly, and asexually slips through our fingers.

The abused and repressed become the self-abusers, and self oppressors, obediently enforcing society’s rules and laws about female sexuality.

You have to awaken your clitoris - use lubricant - touch her softly and often.

How about embracing the label "Slut" and simply become a good one.

Learn about your own body by exploring masturbation including vaginal penetration.

It seems to me that culture and religion are the origins of sexual shame.

We can rarely change another person but we can change ourselves.