Dr Betty, 

I actually was a virgin at the time of my rape and it was my first sexual experience ever. Anyway I have a new relationship and he is experienced but we have not gotten sexually intimate yet. He wants to make sure I am ready and wanting to do this, he is willing to wait. 

My question is, what do I need to expect when I do become intimate with him? Will it be as difficult as if I hadn't had sex at all or what should I do to make it easier for me my first real time? How can he make things easier for me as well? 

Dear Dr. Betty,

I am a 27 year old women that's been in a monogamous relationship for 10 years. I have 2 children and I have my tubes tied. For the past 5 years now I have had sexual urges that I can't explain. I have always enjoyed sex, for a women in today's society a little more then most. I have noticed 3 days before my Diva Week starts and about 1 week after I am as Horny as a 16 year old boy.