Dear Betty,

I appreciate so much your book "Sex for One". It's amazing how these old self-defeating messages rob us of our dearest self-love. I believe orgasm rejuvenates our whole system as taught by Yoginis for centuries. My first orgasm (never to be repeated) was a Whopper through oral sex from a "guru" type.

Dear Dr. Betty,

I will be turning 50 in a few weeks. I've had 3 children whom I breast fed for a total of 8 years. The last few years I have gained & lost 30- 40 lbs. several times. Most recently I have lost the weight. I am having a difficult time accepting my sagging & loose skinned breasts. I just had a self -loving experience that included a wonderful orgasm. I had a mirror set up in front of me.

Dear Dr. Betty,

I'm 20 yrs old. I been feeling really self conscious about my vagina or clit in particular. I have been told by a few sex partners that my clit is "huge"...I'm too embarrassed to ask my GYN. But it pisses me off/hurts my self esteem when guys say this to me.. Do you think I should get that surgery?

What do you think I should do, if anything?

Thankx

Dear Self Conscious,

Dear Dr. Betty,

I've seen porn. I've seen naked woman, etc. Every woman's pussy and anus is different and that is a definite fact. But...I have a very unusual perineum.

Dear Betty,

You've mentioned in several videos on youtube, that one should enjoy the smell of sex..and the smell of their own "situation." I agree....until it comes to me receiving oral sex. I am a clean person and always make sure to shower before hand, but when the juices start flowing, the insecurites I feel over my scent can sometimes inhibit me from cumming. I stop enjoying the moment and think, "I bet he wants to gag right now!"

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have a condition called Hidradenitis suppurativa and it causes bumps on my groin area that then turn into a sort of keloid thing. I'm a 20 yr old female and i would like to lose my virginity but the fear of explaining this to a 20yr old boy is sooo scary.

I don't have a boyfriend or anyone in particular that id like to lose my virginity to but how do i even begin to approach this with a person? id really like to get oral sex but i fear they'll think its because I'm dirty.

Dear Betty,

I'm 22 years old. I'm a nurse and have never been heavy a day in my life. I'm 6 feet and 1 inches tall and weigh 136 pounds.

But I think my Vagina is abnormal. I have a very chubby pubic mound meaning lots of extra flesh" My boyfriend calls it my bumper'LOL I also have very thick lips that completely cover my clit. I've had multiple sexual partners and all of them had never seen a vagina like mine. Is this normal, or is there something wrong????

Please let me know.
~K

Dear K,

hello dr.....

m 21 yrs old ...one of my labia minora (inner lip) is longer than d other and comes out of d labia majora....is dis normal???