Dear Dr. Betty,

I'm 21 and I have a girlfriend at the same age who I've known for 5 years and dated her for 4 months, and it was our first time being in a same-sex relationship. (I just left my ex-boyfriend and I had orgasms all the time from woman-on-top with him.) I am very comfortable with her and trust her completely but I'm defeated most of times during our sex sessions and want to know why I feel so ashamed that it caused me to lose my orgasm ability.

My wife and I have been married for 25 years. We both take care of ourselves as much as possible via Bowflex etc.

Hi there

Thanks for such an amazing site. I am 22 years old and i am an incredibly sexual person...i have and always have had a huge sexual appetite. I have been masturbating since i was a little girl, earliest i remember was about 3...i would masturbate sometimes 10 or so times a day, includng in childcare etc. I would almost always manage to get caught, either by my mother or someone else ( i have a vague memory of being caught by a childcare giver)

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Betty,

I have a question regarding nipple stimulation during masturbation. First allow me to give you a quick background on my wife.

Hi Betty,

I have been plagued by an issue when it comes to sex. I guess I have sort of a performance anxiety issue. I just get so shy and don't express myself very much during sex. This has really put a strain on my relationships. Partners have said that they really want me to make noise when something feels good because it provides feedback and is arousing to them. I just can't seem to do it.

I’m 47 and very sexual. I have been all my sexual life. I got married when I was 21. I have two kids. All my married life I have never been able to have an orgasm without using a vibrator. Over the 27 years that I have been married, I have tried to get my husband to learn how to please me.

One of the first emails is from a gal writing for a woman’s magazine: They are doing a piece on how women can have the best orgasms/sex life possible from “experts.” I get right to it. The last question is: “What is your own go-to trick when it comes to reaching an orgasm in your own sex/masturbation life?”

Well, I answer, it not a “trick” it’s actually a skill.