The number one sex toy is some kind of additional lubrication.

Hi Betty,

I just found your website after reading an about Eric Amaranth in Marie Claire. I loved the essay you wrote on the G spot. I only seem to be able to orgasm from clitoral stimulation (via oral) with simultaneous g-spot stimulation (a finger or dildo). I have orgasmed from vaginal sex alone about twice in my life.

Hello:

I have been admiring your site for years, but when I got the nerve to ask one of many hard questions for my wife's stroke she had in september of 2008. My question is if a woman has had a CVA or stroke, what happened to her sexuality? Since she has been home we have tried many times to have sex, but she does come close to enjoying like she did before.

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have watched countless tutorials, read countless books on the matter, but for the life of me cannot find my own G Spot. When I masturbate and actually let a finger wander inside my vagina, I can't tell any structure or texture apart in there. It all feels the same. I'd like to be able to find it and try to ejaculate, but I'm not even sure if I've ever come before.

Why can't you enjoy your orgasm and when he wants to come either one of you do manual sex or you could finish him off with oral sex.

Hi Betty.

I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is 22. I have only ever had orgasms from the clitoris and never from the g-spot. I really want to be able to have one and know what it feels like. My boyfriend says he has been able to give them to all his other sexual partners but just not me. Is there something wrong?

Thank you

Dear J,

Dear Dr. Betty,

Cal and I have been seeing each other off and on for five years. We seem to drift in and out of each others lives fluidly and I have come to love and cherish the freedom within our relationship. I had only been with one other partner when Cal and I started seeing each other and he had never given me an orgasm (although I had given myself plenty).

Hi Dr. Betty,

I've spent quite a bit of time reading your great posts. I still have a question, though, about orgasm with manual stimulation. I completely agree a woman should be able to bring a vibrator into any sexual encounter-- and I do-- but I would still really love to be able to orgasm without a vibrator. I'm 29 and have never been able to do this.

Am I forever addicted to the vibrator, or is there hope?

Thank you!
J

Dear J,