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Hi Betty,

I don't know quite how to put this, so I'm just going to come out with it. I have (something like) incestuous fantasies. Sometimes I call my boyfriend Daddy when we have sex, and he tells me that I'm his "good little girl." I'm not thinking of my father...or anyone else's father for that matter. I just don't know where this is coming from, but my orgasms have never been so intense.

I even think about it when I masturbate. Is this normal? I'm thinking that what gets me off is the feeling of being taken care of, innocent. I work so hard every day, and I am the responsible/mature one in the relationship. I've never done this with anyone else, and sometimes I feel sort of guilty. Thanks so much in advance. You are amazing for all that you do:)

Dear BG,

Darling, don't let the "thought police" control your fantasies and lose the guilt. One of my favorite fantasies is also "Daddy" and I agree with you. It's nice to be taken care of especially if you are the responsible one in the relationship.

Relax and enjoy! Sexual fantasies are at the heart of the creative impulse, so let your imagination soar.

Dr.Betty