My Go to Trick for Orgasm
Once full arousal is reached, I allow myself to get close to coming, but pull back and breathe deep, dropping back down.
Learning Ejaculatory Control
Although society has yet to honor a sexually experienced woman, I’ve gotten a lot of personal satisfaction knowing what I want when it comes to partnersex. It’s always a pleasure to be with a person who is self-assured— confident in their ability to give and receive pleasure.
Our Bodysex Coaches Write on Fantasy
Our coaches wrote about their relationship with fantasy. Thinking about something that inspires us helps the mind follow the body.
From Trauma to Orgasms
Every woman has been sexually abused by the culture. You can move through past trauma and get to pleasure.
Betty's Rock 'n Roll Orgasms Technique
Betty's uses this technique in her private practice and we teach it in our Bodysex workshops.
First Time Orgasm
A step-by-step guide of giving yourself your first orgasm.
Female Ejaculation Letters
Hi Betty,
I recently read your book Sex for One, borrowed from a friend who was making a documentary about female masturbation. In any case, I am a 21 year-old student who just started exploring my body very recently (on my own that is) and I have come across many interesting things.
For one, it seems that I am an ejaculator. At first, like every other woman, I figured I had peed on myself. But I smelled and checked and made sure it wasn't pee. So the only logical conclusion was ejaculation (and a rather large amount of it too).
Can You Have Too Much Sex?
You have every right to enjoy your body, have an abundance of partners and all the orgasms you want as long as you play safe, stay healthy and your sexual activity doesn't interfere with the rest of you life.
My Vagina is tight and dry...can I orgasm?
It's been said that life begins at 40 and since 60 is the new 40; I'd say you have some good times ahead of you.
Is it Normal for a Straight Man to Obsess Over Men's Genitals?
Dr. Betty,
I have a kind of unusual question, and after seeing you on television, I figured you may be one of the best and knowledgeable people to ask. My ex-husband and I have a fairly good sex life. I think he is not as freaky as he claims to be. His idea of freaky is a threesome (with him running the show). But, since I'm not into it, we have not tried it. His hard-on seems to increase when he mentions me with another man. He frequently asks me about the size of my past lover's penis'.