How about having both kinds of stimulation at the same time, clitoral and vaginal?

A Diaphragm would hold the blood while you are enjoying intercourse.

I seriously doubt this is caused by masturbation unless you are doing penetration with a dildo that is not a quality silicon rubber.

As long as his "rash" is not painful and your vagina is not causing you any major discomfort, I wouldn't worry.

I feel any cold pressed oil like grape seed, apricot, avocado are all good to use as lubricants.

My answer is YES, take your own virginity.

Many women who ejaculate also report it is not the same as having orgasm.

Anytime something bleeds on a regular basis other than your period indicates something is out of whack.

If you want to continue to explore this, tell your partner to ease off.

I always recommend using additional lubrication for all forms of penetration.