Not all women's vaginas pulsate as obviously as your wife's does. It's a question of degree.

Creating a context where you can take back control can be healing.

Also if the dildo was made with phthalates, most of us will experience irritation as a result of this toxic material in a product.

If your partner hasn't been tested and you have any doubts, non-microwaveable plastic wrap is better than a rubber dam.

You are his only sexual interest which is alright for now.

If you've had an orgasm with yourself, you're not a virgin.

You should experiment and see where it leads.

How about having both kinds of stimulation at the same time, clitoral and vaginal?

I recommend you get some sex toys and add some spice to your sessions with Mr. Happy.

You can retrain your clitoris to orgasm with less intense stimulation OR you can bring your vibe to partner sex.