Kristy Lowther, MSW (she/her) is a sexual empowerment coach and educator who has spent over twenty years studying the field of sexuality. She identifies as a cisgender, queer woman who recognizes the importance of creating spaces that intentionally center underrepresented voices. She is passionate about helping people show up authentically and dedicated to empowering individuals through education, coaching, and transformational experiences.
Kristy is a certified Bodysex Instructor, mentored by Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross. She obtained a BA in Psychology with an emphasis in sexuality and gender studies, and a Master’s in Social Work, both from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. She is also a Certified Diversity Executive (CDE®) and has an Executive Certificate in Diversity, Equity & Inclusion from Georgetown University.
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Dear Betty:
I am a 57 year old male. My penis length was 7" and girth almost 6 "s For the past 2 years my testicles and penis has been getting smaller. My penis is now 5" and girth 4 and one half inches. Why am I getting smaller and what can I do.I work out and havent gained any weight. Please help...Frightened male.
Dear JC,
Dear Betty and Carlin,
Hi Betty,
I'm a 44 year old woman and a smoker. i was on the pill from my late teens through my early 30s. since then i've used condoms for birth control. i'm not interested in having children ever.
Dear Dr. Betty,
When my girlfriend is giving me oral sex, she likes to place the pad of her thumb between my testicles and anus. If she feels me throbb and knows I'm about to cum, she'll push hard with her thumb there and squeeze the base of my penis with her other hand (index finger and thumb). She does this so I don't ejaculate into her mouth. Is it safe for her to do this to me? Where does the cum backwash go?
Dear JP,