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Dear Dr. Betty,

When my girlfriend is giving me oral sex, she likes to place the pad of her thumb between my testicles and anus. If she feels me throbb and knows I'm about to cum, she'll push hard with her thumb there and squeeze the base of my penis with her other hand (index finger and thumb). She does this so I don't ejaculate into her mouth. Is it safe for her to do this to me? Where does the cum backwash go?

Dear JP,

How does it feel when she does this? If you don't mind the sensation, then don't worry about it. The ejaculate goes into your bladder and gets peed out later on. As long as you ejaculate at other times I see no harm done. Many men in the Tantra or Taoist traditions learn to retard ejaculation for their spiritual development. There are many books available on the subject. So to shoot or not to shoot is up to the person who's about to blow their load. Enjoy.

Dr. Betty

Thank you... that does make sense. When my girlfriend does this I still have an orgasm. I end up throbbing against her thumb and grip around the base of my penis. There is just no ejaculate, so I don't cum in her mouth. You said earlier that "as long as you ejaculate at other times I see no harm done." Would there be harm if I didn't ejaculate at other times?

Also I notice something when I come in from the cold and go to use the toliet. The skin of my penis is totally covering the head of my penis. I'm a circumcized male, so is this normal?

JP

Hi JP,

Well, I don't know this for sure, but if you never ejaculate, then how would you impregnate a woman when and if you were ready to have children? Aesthetically speaking, blocking a natural function gives me the creeps. What would be wrong with fully ejaculating occasionally? I suggest you seek more detailed information by doing your homework. There was an article posted on the website a while back by Eric Amaranth. Look for "injaculation" on our search engine. As for your dick head hiding under it's supposedly non-existent foreskin, different docs take less or more foreskin off during a routine circumcision. Treat Mr. Happy right and he'll be your friend for life.

Dr. Betty
I'm happy that you posted the last messages on your website. I watched the genital fitness presentation. I've been lifting one and two pound dumb bells with my hardon. Do you think that is too much weight? I would enjoy showing it to you on a webcam sometime. What should my next goal be you think?

JP

Hi JP,

By all means show us how you are weight training your penis. Two pounds? Sounds like you'll end up with a muscular dick. I think your next goal is to relax and enjoy Mr. Happy with yourself and your GF.

Dr. Betty