It slows down our brain waves so we can more readily access our bodily senses.

I encourage genital massage along with masturbation for both women and men.

At best this form of vaginal stimulation would be what I call "indirect clitoral stimulation.

Your vaginal discharge/infection is not the result of you current or past masturbation.

A person can be straight and have gay fantasies or the other way around.

Our arousal patterns change as we mature. If not, it's a sign we are stuck in a rut and it's time for a change.