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Dear Betty,

I have masturbated for many years. I am however still a virgin. When I masturbate, I use only my thumb index and middle finger and rub the head of my penis like i was rolling a spit wad. I have always done it this way and when i try to stroke it, it feels foriegn. Most people talk about stroking their cock. Is what I am doing abnormal?

C

Dear C,

You have an unusual masturbation technique that may or may not translate into penis/vagina sex. I suggest you spend a minute or two stroking the shaft up and over your glans (head of the penis) and back down until it no longer feels foreign to you. Then finish with "old faithful" and roll another spit ball. That's such a cute definition that really works. I could visualize exactly what you've been doing. I don't believe in normal or abnormal. Instead I welcome all the differences in each unique individual. Remember, as long as you are having sex with yourself, you are an orgasmic man not a "virgin."

Dr. Betty