Perhaps some kind of sexual retreat where both of you can experiment with multiple partners within view of each other would help.

I say the days of the sexual double standard are over for women who are willing to call it.

In my opinion, 21 is too young to "settle-down" in a monogamous relationship.

Monogamy is based on religious ideology - not reality.

First establish a sexual relationship with yourself through solo sex.

Asking how she likes to have her clitoris touched is a winner in my books.

You are perfectly normal or a better term is "healthy."

First you must forgive yourself for being honest and expecting the same in return.

First time sex with a partner where you also have your first orgasm with him or her is quite emotional.

The thing that I admire about poly is the honesty of admitting most people want more than one significant lover in a lifetime.