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Dear Betty,

I'm in what seems to be a unique situation . My bf says I do things like squeeze and push him out my vagina and it numbs his penis and makes it go down and lose blood flow. Have you heard of this before ? He says this has happened to him before and makes him feel like I'm rejecting him sexually which I think is obsurd of course. Because I have no control of when this happens, or at least don't feel it. He says i need to relax and.

To me i believe i am, but it seems more frustrating when it becomes technically and I still can't figure out why this happiness. I haven't had many partners , but all have praised this "tightness" Anything I could do or practice?

Dear S

Yes, get in touch with your PC muscle (pelvic floor) and learn how to control it. Women know about this muscle only after they give birth and smart doctors tell them to practice their Kegel exercises. You can Google this to get more info. Also I offer my Vaginal Barbell to help women strengthen the muscle {it also makes a fabulous dildo}.

If you feel your PC muscle is too tight (which is more likely) then doing squats will help to relax it. Using this same muscle consciously will enhance orgasms for both a woman and a man. Bearing down will push a penis out of the vagina, one of my favorite feelings after both of us have climaxed and sex is over. Go into the website and search out all the information we offer freely.

Dr. Betty