If you want to continue to grow sexually with or without a vibrator, you cannot give up on yourself.

Our pleasure repressed society thanks to most organized religions puts a huge emphasis on vaginal intercourse.

Climb out of your "Olympic pool of olive oil" and tune into your your clitoris.

Putting your own fingers in there while looking into a free standing mirror under a good light would be very beneficial.

I repeat: An orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm!

Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. If you stimulate your clitoris during penetration, you can orgasm from their penis.

Since you have no physical problems enjoying sex with yourself, your response to being touched by a man is most likely psychological.

If you still prefer vaginal stimulation then get a dildo that curves up at the end.

Always begin your conversation with a compliment before you discuss your desire for more kissing and affectionate touch.

You can upgrade your masturbation technique and stop humping blankets.