All women can enjoy regular orgasms through regular masturbation practice.
You can upgrade your masturbation technique and stop humping blankets.
You can upgrade your masturbation routine and increase the intensity of your orgasms.
You're one smart man who will not be put "on pause" as you have expanded your definition of orgasmic pleasures that can continued to be shared.
Perhaps it will help if you add your PC muscle in the penetration process.
After you develop orgasms with your clitoris, you can play around with all those esoteric spots inside the vagina.
There isn't a "spot" in your vagina that will bring you to orgasm. Your clitoral system is complex. It's about clitoral stimulation with vaginal penetration.