Something Shifted This Past Workshop

Carlin Ross

Submitted on Sat, 12/19/2015 - 13:48

During this past workshop, something shifted for me and Betty. We're not sure whether the woman are getting better or we are....maybe it's the culminative "Bodysex effect". It feels ordained like we're fulfilling our purpose. It feels wonderful.

When Betty came in from the back room and sat in the circle, she looked around at the women and was completely lovestruck. I've never seen this happen before. She sat there smiling and announced that she was in love with every one of them. When Betty is in that kind of mood, it means something. I knew the weekend was going to be profound.

I say it every time but I can't believe that women travel from afar off places like Switzerland to do a workshop. It's beyond flattering, it's total affirmation that the work resonates with women around the world. At 87, Betty finally has a platform to disseminate her materials and speak her truth. Bodysex is her Sistine Chapel. Before we headed into genital show & tell, I snapped this picture. It captures the feeling between us and our love for this work.

I know that without Bodysex I wouldn't have gotten back to me, my body and my orgasm, so quickly after giving birth and becoming a mother at 41. One workshop isn't enough. You need to return to the circle at least twice a year especially after major life events. The combination of sisterhood and pleasure heals all wounds and inspires us to move forward grounded...centered...complete on our own. At one point during Erotic Recess, Betty pointed down at our feet and smiled. I love this woman.

One of my favorite rituals is the Pillow Fuck. Betty usually wants to cut it and I don't blame her. When you're 87 and have had several orgasms, you want to eat strawberries and relax. This time I pushed and I'm so glad that I did. I passed out the pillows and each woman placed her towel over it, laid her hitachi on top, and straddled both. What's great about the pillow fuck is that all the women are on their knees facing each other. It's my ultimate fantasy image.

Then Betty broke out the Fuck Bar fantasy. We're all prostitutes working at the Fuck Bar...literally. We're all bent forward under the bar so that, when someone comes up for a drink, they can penetrate us. As new patrons "step up", we talk about their size, fucking motion, and bemoan/brag about the experience. In between patrons, a very large bouncer-like bar employee cleans out our vaginas post-fuck and lubes us up for the next one. As Betty recounts the details, the orgasms pass through the group. Seeing a woman's body shake with pleasure as she digs her nails into Betty's living room rug is pretty incredible.

I snapped this pic to show you the Pillow Fuck in all it's glory.