Betty and Carlin
Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross explores women's relationship to
sex, money, and power to advance the ways we love,
create, govern, and raise the next generation.

How Did Betty & Carlin Meet...Are They Having Sex?

 

We love our story.

New & Improved Sex Shop - Betty's Vaginal Barbell Back in Store

We've officially relaunched our Sex Shop with Good Vibrations.  Betty's Barbell is available for purchase for everyone searching aimlessly for it - "barbell" was our top search term 2 weeks in a row.

We have every product imaginable including our favorites: the Water Dancer, the Mystic Wand, and the Hitachi.  Eric put together a list of his must-haves - everything from his favorite dildos to the perfect strap-on harness.

Look around the Sex Shop....read our recommendations...make your wish list...and don't hesitate to send us your questions. 

Enjoy life, Enhance Pleasure, Have More Orgasms.

Jane Austin's Fight Club

 

“We were no longer ‘good society’”

Okay… I was never into Jane Austen. In college. Dr. S would go on and on about it… wait, was it Dr. S? Maybe it was the other professor… a woman, most likely. Anyway, it didn’t matter. I’m sorry but that her books were downright boring and I have little to no interest in the secret squabbles of a “polite society”… in any era. BUT, this version would definitely have me singing a different tune. Why? Because I love watching hot girls kick the shit out of each other…

Can a Vasectomy Cause Full Body Contraction Orgasms?

Is is possible for a man with a vasectomy to develop the ability to have a full body contraction orgasm if never experienced before?

When I Was 19, I Had an Experience With a Lover That Changed My Life

When I was 19, I had an experience with a lover that changed my life. Beginning with simple circular breathing, and slow, gentle touch, she and I fell into a cosmic sexual erotic bliss zone that lasted for several hours. During the experience, we developed a bond that has lasted a lifetime - even though we've never seen each other again.

To understand what happened between us, it's important to understand a little about the brain.

Barbie T&A Calendar Makes You Think

Two male students put this calendar together inspired by the infamous Pirelli calendar - their market: 8 year old boys.  When you look at the poses and the cropped body shots, it all seems so ridiculous. via Copyranter

Could My Boyfriend's Penis be Too Big for Me?

Hi Betty,

I recently started having sex almost 2 months ago, the problem i have is that sometimes he will penetrate so hard that it feels like it is hitting my stomach, like a wall, and i thought that maybe if i relax it would start to feel good, but when i did relax i felt like i was going to faint. (not trying to brag here but my boyfriend has a big dick) is there something im doing wrong, is my vagina too small, i just need your help. Thanks :)

Video from Betty's Memoir Release Party at Kiki

The whole night was a blur.  Betty and I watched the video 10 times yesterday.  Kiki was so beautiful...so much love in the air...Betty's art was amazing...and her interview is pricelss. 

Click to Watch the Video

I Hope That If She Finds Someone with Every Possible Trait She Loves Their Skin Color Won't Matter

I was talking to a friend today, and asked her opinion on interracial relationships. She said that she thought they were fine and didn't see a problem with them. I then asked her if she would ever date a black man. I was actually surprised that she said no. I wasn't offended. Just a little shocked that she didn't think it was a possibility.

When I asked her why, she said the patented "I wouldn't want our kids to go through ridicule or anything." That is the number one excuse I hear from people around here when it comes to interracial dating. Honestly, I would rather someone say "I just think black people are ugly" than that bullshit, because it's untrue.

Cosmetic Foot Surgery - Stiletto Platforms to Work: The Price We Pay to Wear High Heels

When I read that women are having cosmetic surgery on their feet so they can wear this season's must-have high heels, I cringed.  And I wear high heels.  But the thought of shortening my toes so they don't crunch up, injecting fat into the ball of my foot so I can stand in heels for hours, or removing my pinky toe for a sleeker foot line is just so barbaric.

I read somewhere that buying shoes stimulates the same area in your brain as clit play.  That would justify women's irrational attraction to high heels. 

Condom Ad Embraces Genital Piercing

Durex brings you the most hard core condom ad ever.  via Copyranter

On Three Different Sex Life Consulting Woman Clients, Part I

Yesterday and today were great days. Sunday's schedule had two of my clients (whose names and descriptions are omitted; only their sex development interests and compelling tidbits are blogged on) we'll call them Jayna and Rochelle. Jayna was interested in making her masturbation orgasms bigger and more satisfying like the ones she has during partnersex. She loves and has great orgasms from rubbing her clit while her boyfriend pumps away. The combination of the different pleasures nails her every time. "I'm spent and satisfied..."  That's the desired result. Whenever she wants it.

The Idea of Others Masturbating & Oneself Being Seen or Caught Masturbating Are Two of the Most Dependable Fantasies

Many people have discovered the emancipating pleasure of sharing masturbation. Many who have not actually tried it have thought about quite a lot; some are delightfully obsessed: the idea of others masturbating, and oneself being seen or caught masturbating, are two of the most dependable fantasies out there. So you may have a window into how potent of a balm this is, and how beautifully it opens up the space for other forms of exploration. For now, let's work from the other direction.

One of the first things that we learn about masturbation is to do it alone.

Is It Vulva or Vagina?

I was recently mocked in a blog for using the word "vulva" during a sex workshop (at a critical thinking conference) when a person asked a question about "shaved vagina". Apparently, I am a pussy pedant.

You guys are the experts in this field, and I would love to hear your input on whether using correct terms is appropriate for sex education workshops. I thought it was fairly obvious, but I may have assumed to much.

Betty Flogging My Bottom

Another pic from our photo shoot - I think I have butt cleavage

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