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I Have Very Little Feeling in My Clitoris
Posted at 8:31 AM Wed by Betty Dodson
Hi Dr. Betty, I'm a 28 year old female and to get right to the point I have very little feeling "down there". I can sit and fondue and finger myself for hours and feel as calm as I would watching...
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Let’s Grow Up & Stop Destroying Families Because of Sex
Posted at 7:44 AM Wed by Fateh Alix Born
There’s a really endearing scene in Grey’s Anatomy where two young doctors try to have a discreet conversation about sex in front of a patient. April says “I told him I’ve never been to the carnival...
Related Tags: Relationships & Polyamory
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It Takes Me 45 Minutes to Orgasm :(
Posted at 8:57 AM Tue by Betty Dodson
Betty - I realize that you are of the opinion that taking a while to orgasm during masturbation is a great and wonderful thing, but when it takes me 45 minutes to an hour to come, I get frustrated....
Related Tags: How to Enhance Your Orgasms
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Suck a C*ck on Camera...Denied
Posted at 8:50 AM Tue by Carlin Ross
Americans consume more pornography than any country in the world...the Bible Belt consumes the most. I believe that porn consumption tracks directly with sexual repression. When we make something...
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Remembering Sandstone
Posted at 8:55 AM Mon by Betty Dodson
I had many good times at Sandstone - a consensual sex club and nudist community on the West Coast in the early 1970s.     Nudity means that we are who we are.  Otherwise, we're in...
Related Tags: Betty's Memoir
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When My GYN Inserts the Speculum the Pain is Unbearable
Posted at 8:20 AM Mon by Betty Dodson
Dr. Betty, I am 22 years old and a virgin. I currently have to go to the GYN because I'm on oral contraceptives for my acne and horrible menstrual cycles (heavy heavy bleeding, major cramps, etc.. I...
Related Tags: Pain During Penetration
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Punched in the Asshole
Posted at 8:06 AM Mon by Carlin Ross
Reid Mihalko is one of our favorite "sex geeks".  I remember the day when Betty shared this story...she was a bit chagrined.  She doesn't know what came over her but she did punch Reid in...
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Nudity is the Healing
Posted at 9:13 AM Sat by Betty Dodson
Not many New York women know that it's completely and totally legal to go topless anywhere & anytime as long as it's for a "non-commercial" purpose.  You can't charge people to look at your...
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Due to Disability We're Limited to 2 Sex Positions. Any Resources on the Topic?
Posted at 8:31 AM Sat by Betty Dodson
Hi Betty, I am in a loving and beautiful and sexy marriage with an incredible man who also happens to have a physical disability. He uses a wheelchair and cannot walk, but he has full sensation in...
Related Tags: Disability & Sex | Sex Positions
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Christy Turlington: I Can't Wait to be 50
Posted at 5:02 PM Fri by Carlin Ross
Christy Turlington is a 44 year-old supermodel who hasn't had any plastic surgery and doesn't plan to...ever. In her latest interview with Harper's Bazaar, she confessed that she "can't wait to be...
Related Tags: Body Image | Menopause & Sex After 50
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Hours of Fun = Hours of Ouch
Posted at 8:40 AM Fri by Betty Dodson
Hi Betty, I have noticed that the first few times I'm with a new person we spend A LOT of time being sexy together. Like hours in a row. This seems normal because we're getting to know each other's...
Related Tags: Lubricants & Vaginal Secretions | Pain During Penetration
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Ralph Lauren's First Plus-Size Model
Posted at 8:52 AM Thu by Carlin Ross
This is Robyn Lawley...hailed as Ralph Lauren's first plus size model. Wow. Looks like she's a size 8 - 10 max.
Related Tags: Body Image
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I Can't Orgasm with F*ck Buddy Two Months After Break Up
Posted at 7:48 AM Thu by Betty Dodson
Hi Betty! I'm a 23 year old girl and it's been two months since I broke up with my boyfriend of almost two years. A month ago I met this super cute guy and since we both weren't looking for anything...
Related Tags: How to Orgasm During Sex | Relationships & Polyamory
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The Golden Age of Pornography
Posted at 7:45 AM Thu by Carlin Ross
This is a photo from Barbara Nitke's new book American Ecstasy. She documented the "Golden Age" of porn working on adult movie sets in New York during the 1980s. “It’s hard to imagine now, but back...
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Need Oral Sex Tips for Curved Penis
Posted at 8:37 AM Wed by Betty Dodson
I have a new partner who has an significantly upward curved penis and I dont know how to perform oral sex. He is a very attentive and pleasing partner. As we have only had sex a couple of times and...
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