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Posted at 9:20 AM Thu by Betty Dodson
Dr. Betty, Let me first say that you are my hero. I am a 33 year old woman who has enjoyed masturbation since childhood, but I’ve always had difficulty coming during penetration. Thanks to you, last...
Posted at 9:18 AM Thu by Carlin Ross
I'm not sure why but I fell in love with this photograph.  And I didn't realize that they were holding hands until just now. Totally owning it.
Related Tags: Feminism
Posted at 11:21 AM Wed by Betty Dodson
Dear Dr. Betty I'm not a teen anymore, but I live with my parents. Unfortunately I don't believe they understand I have sexual needs as an adult because they still see me as a kid (because I'm still...
Related Tags: Vibrators & Sex Toys
Posted at 10:35 AM Tue by Carlin Ross
Bjork has always been one of my favorite artists.  Recently, she shared with Pitchfork magazine that several male "engineers" got producer credits for electronic arrangements that she did...
Related Tags: Feminism
Posted at 8:49 AM Mon by Betty Dodson
Orgasm questions to Dr. Betty arrive at a steady pace… How can I be sure I’ve had an orgasm? How can I get a bigger orgasm? Or why can’t I orgasm during sex with my partner? What does an orgasm feel...
Related Tags: How to Orgasm
Posted at 8:40 AM Mon by Lawrence Lanoff
For all the people I’m about to piss off, I open this blog post with an apology. I’m sorry. With that out of the way, let’s get to our regularly scheduled blog. One of my students asked an...
Related Tags: Male Ejaculation
Posted at 8:54 AM Sat by Bjorn Bjorn
He caught my eye as a man. He delivered me as a woman. How’d it happen? I didn’t understand trans meant he was a way to transfer to another world. And then we met. A twinkle in the eye. A smooth...
Posted at 12:54 PM Fri by Betty Dodson
Hallelujah for your site as I've been trying to understand my orgasm and why my partner seems to think I'm faking it. I know when I masturbate myself I stimulate my g spot and clitorus until they...
Related Tags: How to Orgasm
Posted at 12:50 PM Fri by Carlin Ross
The corset started it all.
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Posted at 12:48 PM Thu by Betty Dodson
Hello Betty, First I would like to thank you so much for this site. There are several things I want to touch on and ask about. First some background about me. I am 28 female and was under the...
Related Tags: How to Orgasm
Posted at 12:39 PM Thu by Carlin Ross
This clip is so heartwarming.  It features the woman whose vagina is the mold for the Fleshlight masturbator sleeve.  She starts off by talking about how her father told her that women...
Related Tags: Vibrators & Sex Toys
Posted at 11:58 AM Wed by Betty Dodson
Hi Betty Just over two years ago I got a IUD (cobber); it did hurt a lot to get up and afterwards I was about to faint. (I have no kids so I am very tight down there). On the way home after I had set...
Posted at 11:54 AM Wed by Carlin Ross
I love this ad because it shows how misogyny drops away when there's a war on.  Here we have a woman showing off her draftsman skills, not peeling potatoes or collecting metal.  She has a...
Related Tags: Feminism
Posted at 8:56 AM Mon by Betty Dodson
I recommend the Caya as THE BEST birth control available today (it's also been marketed under the SILCS brand). When used correctly with spermicidal jelly and positioned to cover the cervix, it's 99...
Posted at 9:12 AM Sat by Betty Dodson
Dear Dr. Betty, I am 58 years & I was sexually abused and also involved in child pornography by my parents and their siblings & their cousins. To say that I have an issue with my own...
Related Tags: How to Orgasm