pussy pride https://www.dodsonandross.com/ en The Range of Vulva Styles from Sex for One https://www.dodsonandross.com/blogs/carlin/2010/05/bettys-vulva-illustrations <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--title--blog.html.twig x field--node--title.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--title.html.twig * field--string.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--title.html.twig' --> <span class="field field--name-title field--type-string field--label-hidden">The Range of Vulva Styles from Sex for One</span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--title.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--uid--blog.html.twig x field--node--uid.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--uid.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN 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field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <div class="field field--name-field-image field--type-image field--label-hidden field__item"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image_formatter' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-formatter.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image_style' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-style.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image.html.twig' --> <img src="/sites/default/files/styles/webp/public/2018-07/vulvas_pencil.jpg.webp?itok=92hqEgqY" width="551" height="225" alt="" loading="lazy" typeof="foaf:Image" class="image-style-webp" /> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-style.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-formatter.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> </div> <div class="field__item"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'paragraph' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary---default.html.twig * paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * paragraph--default.html.twig x paragraph.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--atom-rtf-with-summary- paragraph--view-mode--default"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig * field--paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig x field--text-with-summary.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> <div class="clearfix text-formatted field field--name-field-atom-rtf-with-summary field--type-text-with-summary field--label-hidden field__item"><p>Back in the 70's, during the Genital Show &amp; Tell ritual in her Bodysex workshops, Betty started identifying the "style" of each vulva using architectural styles as a reference: Classical, Gothic, Modern, Renaissance, Baroque, and the Heart.</p> <p>The women connected with the architectural reference and we still describe your vulva style in our Bodysex workshops today.&nbsp; After 40 years of looking at vulvas, Betty will see some shape or combination of features that is unique to that woman's vulva.&nbsp; Our sex organs are divine and no two vulvas look alike.</p> <p>Betty sketched these vulvas for the release of her international best seller <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Sex-One-Selfloving-Betty-Dodson/dp/0517886073">Sex for One</a>.&nbsp; Her girlfriends were her models.</p> <p>Below is the <strong>Classical</strong> vulva.&nbsp; Notice the symmetrical inner and outer labia and the moderately sized clitoris.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <img alt="Classical Vulva" data-entity-type="file" data-entity-uuid="1c207763-a420-43c1-90ac-94ab2d403644" src="/sites/default/files/inline-images/classical_0_0.jpg" class="align-center" width="551" height="829" loading="lazy"> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Below is the <strong>Gothic </strong>vulva.&nbsp; Notice the elongated clitoral hood and the dramatic draping of the inner labia.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <img alt="Gothic Vulva" data-entity-type="file" data-entity-uuid="a8ef45eb-dbf9-43bc-8a1c-8674c4a0b6ee" src="/sites/default/files/inline-images/gothic_0.jpg" class="align-center" width="551" height="748" loading="lazy"> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Below is the <strong>Modern</strong> vulva.&nbsp; Notice the large clitoris, sleek lines of the labia, and vaginal opening.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <img alt="Modern Vulva" data-entity-type="file" data-entity-uuid="eb30d9e7-bca7-4cc1-b4f3-edf3b311bce9" src="/sites/default/files/inline-images/modern_0.jpg" class="align-center" width="551" height="721" loading="lazy"> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Below is the <strong>Renaissance</strong> vulva.&nbsp; Notice the ruffled inner labia that drape down from the clitoral hood like beautiful fabric.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <img alt="Renaissance Vulva" data-entity-type="file" data-entity-uuid="f957bace-bb2b-4225-8387-064a08ea56da" src="/sites/default/files/inline-images/renaissance_0.jpg" class="align-center" width="551" height="838" loading="lazy"> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Below is the<strong> Baroque</strong> vulva.&nbsp; Notice the ornate quality of the labia with several scallops and turns and the unique hood folds over the clitoris.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <img alt="Baroque Vulva" data-entity-type="file" data-entity-uuid="351735b1-d2bf-4e9c-b28c-03cc565087b9" src="/sites/default/files/inline-images/baroque1_0.jpg" class="align-center" width="551" height="713" loading="lazy"> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Below is the the <strong>Heart </strong>vulva (my personal vulva style).&nbsp; Notice how the outer labia - when pulled to the sides - make the shape of a heart with darker inner labia and madonna-esque clitoral hood and clitoris.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <img alt="The Heart" data-entity-type="file" data-entity-uuid="8f0295cb-5e7f-49ad-8563-a90f3ef7b036" src="/sites/default/files/inline-images/artdeco_0.jpg" class="align-center" width="551" height="783" loading="lazy"> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Betty and I always say that we've never seen an unattractive vulva.</p> <p>Each clitoris has over 8,000 nerve endings.&nbsp; The folds and drapery of the inner labia are spectacular.&nbsp; Then there are the beautiful variations in color: baby pinks and soft peaches....deep mauves and chocolate browns...velvety blacks and soft opalescent pearls.&nbsp;</p> <p>The beauty is endless. Here are the rest of the sketches with variations on the above "styles":</p> <img alt="vulva" data-entity-type="file" data-entity-uuid="1b85d2a7-b87f-4462-9b4c-8dc3dd37a62d" src="/sites/default/files/inline-images/vulva_sketches-1f.jpg" class="align-center" width="800" height="1191" loading="lazy"> <p>&nbsp;</p> <img alt="vulva" data-entity-type="file" data-entity-uuid="b089529e-8231-424c-aa36-5404cfe26ea2" src="/sites/default/files/inline-images/vulva_sketchesf.jpg" class="align-center" width="800" height="1265" loading="lazy"> <p>&nbsp;</p> <img alt="vulva" data-entity-type="file" data-entity-uuid="2c53078d-b8e3-4d78-82cd-93e96907b7b7" src="/sites/default/files/inline-images/vulva_sketches-3f.jpg" class="align-center" width="800" height="1227" loading="lazy"> <p>&nbsp;</p> <img alt="vulva" data-entity-type="file" data-entity-uuid="0e65bc83-7b0b-40af-91a0-ebc5821ddf3e" src="/sites/default/files/inline-images/vulva_sketches-5f.jpg" class="align-center" width="800" height="1085" loading="lazy"> <p>&nbsp;</p> <img alt="vulva" data-entity-type="file" data-entity-uuid="b94c3acc-746b-4d71-9b99-678c0278a820" src="/sites/default/files/inline-images/vulva_sketches-6f.jpg" class="align-center" width="800" height="1085" loading="lazy"> <p>&nbsp;</p> <img alt="vulva" data-entity-type="file" data-entity-uuid="1cb43961-f668-43e9-9daf-37ebe346acb2" src="/sites/default/files/inline-images/vulva_sketches-12f_0.jpg" class="align-center" width="800" height="1208" loading="lazy"> <p>&nbsp;</p> <img alt="vulva" data-entity-type="file" data-entity-uuid="a2b7ad92-60c9-42ec-8b90-7acb23b39125" src="/sites/default/files/inline-images/vulva_sketches-14f.jpg" class="align-center" width="800" height="1053" loading="lazy"> <p>&nbsp;</p></div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 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field--comment.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--comment.html.twig' --> <section class="field field--name-field-blog-comments field--type-comment field--label-hidden comment-wrapper"> </section> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--comment.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-promote-to-popular-posts--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig x field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig * field--boolean.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig' --> Fri, 27 Jul 2018 12:22:06 +0000 Carlin Ross 231 at https://www.dodsonandross.com Sex During Your Period is Just One of the Reasons https://www.dodsonandross.com/articles/sex-during-your-period-just-one-reasons <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--title--blog.html.twig x field--node--title.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--title.html.twig * field--string.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--title.html.twig' --> <span class="field field--name-title field--type-string field--label-hidden">Sex During Your Period is Just One of the Reasons</span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--title.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--uid--blog.html.twig x field--node--uid.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--uid.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 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field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <div class="field field--name-field-image field--type-image field--label-hidden field__item"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image_formatter' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-formatter.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image_style' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-style.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image.html.twig' --> <img src="/sites/default/files/styles/webp/public/2018-12/img_2566.jpg.webp?itok=FVPGpGOX" width="640" height="452" alt="" loading="lazy" typeof="foaf:Image" class="image-style-webp" /> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-style.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-formatter.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> </div> <div class="field__item"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'paragraph' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary---default.html.twig * paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * paragraph--default.html.twig x paragraph.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--atom-rtf-with-summary- paragraph--view-mode--default"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig * field--paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig x field--text-with-summary.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> <div class="clearfix text-formatted field field--name-field-atom-rtf-with-summary field--type-text-with-summary field--label-hidden field__item"><p>Yes, that's my menstrual blood and I'm bleeding right now.&nbsp; I am in my power.&nbsp;</p> <p>This post has been rolling around in my mind - I've been thinking about how much I love being a woman and how my menstrual cycle connects me to the tides, the lunar cycle and to all living things.&nbsp; I believe that menstruation sets womankind apart as natural-born leaders.&nbsp; And it's more than our ability to birth the next generation.&nbsp; It's multilayered and profound.</p> <p>With blood, comes the truth (and increased communication skills).</p> <p>When a woman is bleeding, her ability to think of an idea or emotion and select the most appropriate word for said idea/emotion is at it's highest.&nbsp; That means that not only are women better suited to the communication demands of the modern workplace and society in general but, when we have our periods, our skill set bumps up to new levels.&nbsp; That is fucking amazing and makes total evolutionary sense to me.&nbsp;</p> <p>You have this divine being - this divine body - that has varying hormone levels every day of the month which makes you more in tune to changes in your environment.&nbsp; You can multitask and grow life inside this divine body on a recurring monthly cycle.&nbsp; When that potential life is not chosen, the uterus releases the thickened blood lining of nourishment and, with that release of blood, comes a new awareness of others and advantaged abilities.&nbsp; This is true power, power that is innate, self-sustaining and cyclical.&nbsp;</p> <p>I never understood why periods where a punchline, something to demean a woman by asking if she was "on the rag".&nbsp; Where is the respect...the monuments to female strength and endurance?&nbsp; Why would a society demean what should be exalted?&nbsp; Instead of acknowledging our contribution to all human life it's used as a justification to deny us equality and full civic participation.&nbsp; We're taught to never trust anything that "bleeds for a week and doesn't die" - a woman can't be president because she'd launch nukes when she had her period.&nbsp; What crap.&nbsp;</p> <p>If someone bleeds for a week and lives, then I would show some fucking respect and maybe even create some womb-based iconography and set up some goddess worship (oh year we did that).&nbsp; Womankind is captivating on so many levels. &nbsp; No matter how hard you knock us down we keep going.&nbsp; We get up, brush ourselves off, and get back to mapping out trajectories to the moon or feeding our children.&nbsp; We can do it all and blood makes us stronger.</p> <p>Bleeding kick starts your libido - sex during your period is awesome.</p> <p>Right before I get my period - when I start to feel the blood-filled lining of my uterus pull away - I get super horny and I crave penetration.&nbsp; With every stroke, I get closer and closer to release.&nbsp; There's something about this magical moment in my hormone cycle that makes orgasm sublime.&nbsp; Maybe it's because I feel more connected to my body or more in touch with my feminine but what a rush.&nbsp; Then, when I am bleeding, I love penetration sex.&nbsp; There's a metallic quality to menstrual blood that is intoxicating. It's thick and sticky and dark and silky.&nbsp; I love the feeling of blood between my thighs.&nbsp; For the record, I've never had a partner object to period sex.&nbsp; It's how sex should be: base and animal.&nbsp;</p> <p>Free-bleeding during sex is also wonderful.&nbsp; There are times I wish we could all just run around outside free-bleeding into the earth. It just feels right.&nbsp; And I fucking hate tampons and pads.&nbsp; Besides there being carcinogenic chemicals and bleach in these products, it perpetuates this need for male-contrived solutions that are expensive and anything but green.&nbsp; My menstrual cup was the best investment I ever made.&nbsp; It's safe, effective, cost $20 and now I'm good for life.&nbsp; Only silicone, stainless steel, glass and the occasional flesh dildo go in my vagina.&nbsp;</p> <p>Periods are fucking sexy.</p> <p>Vice Magazine posted an image of a woman sitting at a sandwich counter in front of a glass window with blood seeping through her panties and it was beyond hot.&nbsp; I think periods are super sexy.&nbsp; We're raised to live in fear of "accidents" but there's nothing more arousing than a blood stain in a panty.&nbsp; It reminds us that our bodies are dynamic reproductive systems and taps into the depths of sexual desire.&nbsp; In the end, we are all victims of our hormones and this incredible cycle of life that courses through our veins and out our vaginas.&nbsp; And I'm a huge fan of menstrual art as subject and medium.&nbsp; One day I want to go to an exhibition completely devoted to menses.&nbsp; A girl can dream.</p> <p>Menstruation marks the passage of time and our mortality.</p> <p>Betty always says that she misses her period.&nbsp; You can lose sight of the wonder of it all until it's a memory.&nbsp; It seems like it will go on forever but it's finite and that is profound.&nbsp; As women, we are reminded that change is constant - our bodies signal the monthly passage of time and the ultimate transition from maiden to crone.&nbsp; There is no denial.&nbsp; There is no refusal only acceptance.&nbsp; In the end, we are liberated by our bodies, the bodies that the culture tries in vain to control and conquer. &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;</p> <p>As I pen this love letter to my womanhood, I bleed knowing that, at 45, these are the last years of maiden.&nbsp; I move towards crone with love and happiness in my heart but one thing left to do.&nbsp; I've always wanted to apply menstrual blood on my face like war paint.&nbsp; It was perfect.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <img alt="Carlin" data-entity-type="file" data-entity-uuid="b3b9d417-d01c-467f-9309-82c29f834aba" src="/sites/default/files/inline-images/IMG_2573.jpg" class="align-center" width="2320" height="3088" loading="lazy"> <p>&nbsp;</p></div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: x field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-category.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-category.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- 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field--node--field-blog-comments--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-blog-comments.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-blog-comments.html.twig x field--comment.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--comment.html.twig' --> <section class="field field--name-field-blog-comments field--type-comment field--label-hidden comment-wrapper"> </section> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--comment.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-promote-to-popular-posts--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig x field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig * field--boolean.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig' --> Thu, 20 Dec 2018 14:11:23 +0000 Carlin Ross 7191 at https://www.dodsonandross.com Viewing Your Vulva is the First Step to Becoming a Fully Orgasmic Woman https://www.dodsonandross.com/blogs/betty-dodson/2015/01/viewing-your-vulva-first-step-becoming-fully-orgasmic-woman <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--title--blog.html.twig x field--node--title.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--title.html.twig * field--string.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--title.html.twig' --> <span class="field field--name-title field--type-string field--label-hidden">Viewing Your Vulva is the First Step to Becoming a Fully Orgasmic Woman</span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--title.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 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NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig * field--paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig x field--text-with-summary.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> <div class="clearfix text-formatted field field--name-field-atom-rtf-with-summary field--type-text-with-summary field--label-hidden field__item"><p>One of my favorite moments in every private session and Bodysex workshop is viewing women’s sex organs. Just think: I’ve been doing this ritual nearly fifty years and never for one moment have I gotten tired of seeing the vast variety and beauty of vulvas. Each and every one is a unique work of art. This is when I appreciate my years of art schooling learning to draw the classical nude. There was no better way to sharpen my ability to see the over-all form as well as the smallest details.</p> <p>One recent client was a 46 year old, sophisticated NY entrepreneur who was doing very well in her professional life. Yet her sex life was suffering because she’d never really had an orgasm other than a few minor blips when she pressed up against her bed. This very indirect clitoral stimulation is quite common and often used during childhood. She was smart enough to realize an orgasm would feel more dramatic than what she was currently experiencing. She was a tall woman with a healthy fit body, beautiful face and a mop of black curls. I’ll call her Carol to protect her anonymity.</p> <p>She said she felt she was either passing through orgasms she was not aware of or not going far enough. Carol confessed she never spent much time masturbating because she felt it was a chore and a waste of time. It was better when her husband helped her to have a fantasy but she always reached a point of frustration even though she was doing her best to let go and not worry about the results. Still she could not reach an orgasm and then admitted she wasn’t even sure what an orgasm would feel like.</p> <p>When we sat down to do her genital exam, she confessed that she’d never really looked at her vulva, ever. Although that’s difficult for me to understand, I knew she was telling the truth because this is far too common for many women. When her legs first spread open, a large patch of unruly dark pubic hair covered the upper part of her sex organ. Her inner lips were all rumpled up having been stuffed inside her underwear and tight jeans. This is when she was convinced “it” was ugly.</p> <p>I offered her some almond massage oil so she could apply it to her vulva hand over hand as she did her first genital massage while watching in the mirror. As she spread her inner and outer lips now glistening with oil, her sex organ became a lovely design. Over the years of viewing, I’ve likened the vulva to architectural periods such as Renaissance for drapery or Art Deco for fluted lines. Or it can appear as a floral design like an orchid or a fruit such as a peach or fig. It gives the owner a frame of reference with the ability to view her genitals as an object designed by Mother Nature or as a work of art created by Master builders. After checking out her pelvic floor muscle, locating her urethral opening and answering any questions about moles or strange skin tags or any imagined flaws including dark inner lips, we then we have a naming ceremony. I am her witness.</p> <p>While it might sound frivolous, I find it empowering to choose a pet name as you would for anything that is special and adored. The ritual ends with her parting comments to her newly acknowledged divine vulva that includes an apology for ignoring this important part of her body—the source of procreation, pleasure and power. Men long for pussy; fight wars and each other to possess one, and yet, many women have never had the curiosity to view the one that’s between her own legs.</p> <p>The first MOST important step in viewing your sex organ is a mirror that frees both hands. I prefer at least an 8 inch diameter. The magnifying side of a make-up mirror doesn’t work for vulva viewing due to distortion. That small compact mirror with one foot on the edge of the bathtub while pulling your outer labia off to one side will not give you an authentic image. That would be like pulling your mouth to one side to see how you look when smiling. The other element is a good light source.</p> <p>Never touch your vulva with dry fingers. If nothing else, use saliva. Before you explore your sex organ, cover your hands with organic vegetable, almond, coconut or avocado oil. Now do an overall vulva massage while watching in the mirror. Consciously touch the areas above, below and alongside your clitoris. You can pull the protective hood back and gently touch the tiny clitoral glans. The clitoral hood is there for protection. Once you feel how sensitive it is, you’ll know not to stimulate the glans directly. This tiny organ has 8,000 nerve endings and must be handled with care. So many young women say they are “rubbing" their clitoris which sounds like scrubbing the bottoms of their feet. Be sweet and gentle with this tiny gut powerful sex organ.</p> <p>Another important aspect in learning how to masturbate is to remember that a first time will rarely produce satisfactory results. Entertaining your clitoris would be like preparing a gourmet meal. It takes knowledge, planning, patience and repeated practice to master any skill. This begins by having an image of your sex organ with the intricate parts that not only gives us endless pleasure with orgasms but can also birth a baby. Talk about power! It’s all right there between our legs waiting to be discovered, understood, enjoyed and shared. Once the Divine Vulva is honored by the owner, her partner and the society at large as it once was in antiquity, Pussy Power will be a fact of women’s lives.</p> <p>I was around 10 years old the first time I looked at my sex organ. My girlfriends and I had been talking about where babies came from and I wanted to see the hole between my legs. Getting my mother's hand mirror from her dressing table, I propped it against a pillow on the floor while I sat under a window with sun streaming into my bedroom. When I took that first look, I was horrified! My inner-lips extended beyond the outer lips and looked just like those funny things that dangled from a chicken’s neck. Immediately I knew I’d stretched them from too much masturbation. At first, I stuffed both of them inside my vagina, but they came right back out. Now everyone would know I’d been playing with myself since age five. On the spot, I promised God if He would get rid of them, I’d never masturbate again!</p> <p>Then upon closer observation, I noticed the inner lip on the right side was longer, so I made a deal with God. I would masturbate on the left side until they evened up and then I’d stop forever! From that day on, I had my fingers on the left side of my clitoris, but my inner labia never evened up or dropped off— so much for God and symmetry.</p> <p>Years later I’d realize my good fortune: I’d been raised by an orgasmic mother who believed masturbation was a natural activity for children. Those first explorations of our genitals as children become the basis of our sexlives as adults. Masturbation is the foundation for all human sexual activity. It's our first natural sexual activity; the way we discover our sex organ and the pleasurable feelings when we touch them. Any shaming, punishment, or other negative response from a parent or care giver will eventually show up as a sex problem when we reach adulthood. The prohibition of masturbation denies the natural development of connecting nerve pathways from our sex organ to the pleasure center in the brain.</p> <p>During the next 25 years, my imaginary genital deformity was a serious handicap when I had sex with a partner. Finally at 35, my post marital lover asked if he could look at me after I’d had a fabulous orgasm with oralsex. I burst into tears confessing I’d stretched my inner lips from too much childhood masturbation. For a moment he looked at me in disbelief and then dashed off to return moments later with a stack of magazines. He spread several on the bed and began showing me photos of women's genitals. Back in the sixties “Girlie Magazines” had a wide variety of women’s natural sex organs with real bodies and no photo shop or surgically trimmed inner lips. He explained that when a woman held her outer lips open, it was called “Split Beaver.”</p> <p>Two years of therapy hadn’t made a dent in my sexual ignorance. However, just fifteen minutes of viewing images of authentic women’s sex organs allowed me to realize I was normal. Discovering the beauty of my vulva dramatically changed my life, especially when it came to being sexually intimate with a partner. That experience inspired me to produce a feminist slide show of women’s genitals for the first (and last) Women’s Sex Conference in 1973: sponsored by NOW, the National Organization for Women in New York City. Since photographs of women’s sex organs are considered pornographic, I did pen and ink drawings of vulvas for my first self-published book, <em>Liberating Masturbation: a Meditation on Selflove</em>. They have since been copied and shown by therapists to women around the world. Unfortunately each new generation must suffer through the notion that something is wrong with their vulva.</p> <p>Today many porn stars get their inner lips trimmed because some Jackass decided men prefer the clam shell look. It’s time women claim our own sex organ and rescue it from the porn industry, and misguided sex professionals who base their understanding of women’s sexual pleasure upon the male model of sexual response that favors vaginal penetration as the primary sex act. While a penis in a vagina is the procreative model, it ignores a woman’s primary sex organ for pleasure and orgasms— the clitoris. Viewing your vulva, knowing the different parts and accepting its appearance as a work of art is the first step to becoming a fully orgasmic woman.</p></div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: x field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-category.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-category.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig' --> <div class="articles__categories"> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--card paragraph--view-mode--default simple-band transparent"> <div class="field__item"> 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https://www.dodsonandross.com/blogs/betty-dodson/2015/01/viewing-your-vulva-first-step-becoming-fully-orgasmic-woman#comments My Boyfriend Won't Go Down on Me https://www.dodsonandross.com/articles/my-boyfriend-wont-go-down-me <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--title--blog.html.twig x field--node--title.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--title.html.twig * field--string.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--title.html.twig' --> <span class="field field--name-title field--type-string field--label-hidden">My Boyfriend Won&#039;t Go Down on Me</span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--title.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--uid--blog.html.twig x field--node--uid.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--uid.html.twig * 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'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-style.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-formatter.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> </div> <div class="field__item"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'paragraph' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary---default.html.twig * paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * paragraph--default.html.twig x paragraph.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--atom-rtf-with-summary- paragraph--view-mode--default"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig * field--paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig x field--text-with-summary.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> <div class="clearfix text-formatted field field--name-field-atom-rtf-with-summary field--type-text-with-summary field--label-hidden field__item"><p>Dr. Betty -</p> <p>I recently found your site and thought that if you had the time, you could help me with a problem that I've had for a while. I know masturbation is more of your thing, but if you wouldn't mind giving me advice on safe oral sex, it would be much appreciated!</p> <p>I've been dating a wonderful boy for a year now. We get along very well in pretty much everything and know how to work out our problems. I lost my virginity to him about six months ago and I've been pretty well satisfied sexually ever since. As far as I can tell, he is too. He's very concerned with making me happy and vice-versa. However, said boyfriend won't go down on me. I would very much enjoy it if he did.</p> <p>This isn't because he doesn't want to (he's tried multiple times), but primarily because it makes him gag. He told me that he's never been able to go down on any of his previous girlfriends. I don't know if it's the smell or the flavor or what, but I had some ideas to make it more appealing for him. I need to know that these ideas are safe before I proposed them to him, so I've been making inquiries of several reputable sources, because anytime I look for people who have problems like us, instead of finding helpful advice (like what would be safe to place on a vulva or in a vagina) I just find things like these helpful little gems:</p> <p>"unless u are unhygenic he shouldnt refuse"</p> <p>"In my opinion you will have to live without it, he doesn't like it and if there realy is nothing that will change his mind, well, then there is not much you can do about it!"</p> <p>"There's absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting to go down on your girlfriend....unless you like getting blowjobs."</p> <p>"I have one word for you...DEALBREAKER!!!!"</p> <p>The judgement is very harsh from both sexes and there are never any solutions presented except withholding sexual favors from him until he goes down, which seems like glowingly terrible advice and a great way to initiate conflict. Besides, I really like going down on him.</p> <p>I want to give you my list of things I've thought of to do that could make going down good for both of us. There are some terrible ideas down there, but I included them anyways so you could tell me I'm being a dumb shit for even considering them:</p> <p>1) Dessert à la vulva. Put whipped cream, honey, or something to mask my flavor. I don't know what's safe to put there, though. Spices? Sugary confections?</p> <p>2) I've heard of people putting alcohol in their vaginal canal and having someone drink it up. This is a TERRIBLE idea because you're putting alcohol directly into your blood stream and could die. However, could it be served via female condom? Or something non-alcoholic?</p> <p>3) Burn off his taste buds with hot chocolate or scalding tea or something.</p> <p>4) There are people out there who swear the eating different foods make you taste better. Is this true?</p> <p>5) Nose plugs + Saran wrap + blindfold? See no evil, smell no evil, taste no evil?</p> <p>6) Get him so drunk he doesn't care.</p> <p>7) See if he's okay with me finding a friend to play with who doesn't mind eating me out.</p> <p>8) Decide that I can live without it. A depressing thought, but I'd do it for him.</p> <p>9) Request he eat a tin of mints beforehand until he can taste nothing but mint.</p> <p>10) Use his tongue to move something on, in, or around my vagina, but never actually touch it with his mouth or tongue, like ice or a HexBug, which moves by vibrating.</p> <p>11) Flavored lube, or something to that effect.</p> <p>If you have anything to add, I'd be happy to hear it. I really just want to find a safe solution that fulfills my curiosity and he finds palatable. I don't need oral to survive, but I really, really want to try it. He'd do it if I asked, but I don't want to force him to do something he doesn't like. If we could find it mutually enjoyable, that would really be best.</p> <p>Many thanks,</p> <p>B</p> <p>Dear B,</p> <p>What a bummer! The big problem here is he's constantly rejecting your vulva as something that makes him gag. My first thought: Put him in restraints and sit on his face until he can gag no more. At some point he'll have to surrender to whatever is the source of his problem. There is nothing wrong with gagging and maybe he just needs to go through it instead of always stopping because of it. The gag reflex can be embraced and then our attitude toward it can be altered. That's how many of us learn to do deep throat. We learn to embrace gagging and discover it's no big deal.</p> <p>It's logical to assume some sweet flavor will mask the musk of pussy BUT any thing containing sugar must be kept away from your vagina. That would cause a raging yeast overgrowth that can be dealt with via some natural remedies or<br> as most doctors advise, taking an anti-biotic. I do not subscribe to the latter.</p> <p>The diet approach is viable. I know my scent and taste changed dramatically during the years I was a vegetarian and not drinking alcohol or smoking cigarettes. I clearly remember one young vegan lover who's semen actually tasted sweet, but due to his hyper clean diet he didn't have much energy for sex, dancing or parties.</p> <p>Your #7) was the best. "See if he's okay with me finding a friend to play with who doesn't mind eating me out." Only fair. Maybe the thought of loosing you to some big wet swinging tongue that belongs to some other dude would peak his competitive spirit. Finally, using a dental dam which was considered safe oral sex will provide a barrier and he'll be licking and sucking latex. That's what I hated but maybe he'll love it.</p> <p>Finally, he might consider seeing a counselor to uncover the source of his inhibition. Or work with a hypnotist to overcome it. In the end, the choice to accept this or move along is up to you. Personally, I'm of the school that believes when sex is good the first time, it only gets better. But when there is a problem, then sex remains problematic throughout the entire relationship. It's your choice. I'd love to know what solution you end up with or what worked.</p> <p>Dr. Betty</p></div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: x field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-category.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-category.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig' --> <div class="articles__categories"> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--card paragraph--view-mode--default simple-band transparent"> <div class="field__item"> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--title 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from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--comment.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-promote-to-popular-posts--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig x field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig * field--boolean.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig' --> Wed, 21 Aug 2013 14:50:14 +0000 Betty Dodson 2521 at https://www.dodsonandross.com I'm Too Young for Gray Pussy Hair https://www.dodsonandross.com/articles/im-too-young-gray-pussy-hair <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--title--blog.html.twig x field--node--title.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * 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typeof="schema:Person" property="schema:name" datatype="">Betty Dodson</span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/user/username.html.twig' --> </span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--uid.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--created--blog.html.twig x field--node--created.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--created.html.twig * field--created.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--created.html.twig' --> <span class="field field--name-created field--type-created field--label-hidden"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'time' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/time.html.twig' --> <time datetime="2013-05-09T12:25:58+00:00" title="Thursday, May 9, 2013 - 12:25" class="datetime">Thu, 05/09/2013 - 12:25</time> <!-- END OUTPUT from 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'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-formatter.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image_style' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-style.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image.html.twig' --> <img src="/sites/default/files/styles/webp/public/2018-08/bettysporn_23.jpg.webp?itok=7zZa3tMy" width="640" height="375" alt="" loading="lazy" typeof="foaf:Image" class="image-style-webp" /> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-style.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-formatter.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> </div> <div class="field__item"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'paragraph' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary---default.html.twig * paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * paragraph--default.html.twig x paragraph.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--atom-rtf-with-summary- paragraph--view-mode--default"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig * field--paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig x field--text-with-summary.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> <div class="clearfix text-formatted field field--name-field-atom-rtf-with-summary field--type-text-with-summary field--label-hidden field__item"><p>Hi Dr. Betty,</p> <p>I'm only in my thirties and yet my pussy hair is going gray...like a lot! We all know that the hair on our heads goes gray with age but I guess I've never really thought about pussy hair turning gray too. I'm too young for a gray pussy!! Do all women go gray down there?</p> <p>I think I'm going to shave my pussy bald. Don't want to see all that gray hair. Makes me feel old.</p> <p>C</p> <p>Dear C,</p> <p>According to my workshops and private sessions, women are letting their pubes grow out. I honestly prefer pubic hair to a bald pussy.</p> <p>My bush is now an assortment of thinning brown, gray and white hair. It's such a pleasure not to shave or wax. Just a few unruly hairs get trimmed with scissors around my clitoris and vaginal opening.</p> <p>To each her own.</p> <p>Dr. Betty</p></div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: x field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-category.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-category.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig' --> <div class="articles__categories"> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--card paragraph--view-mode--default simple-band transparent"> <div class="field__item"> <div 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<div class="field__label">Cloud Tags</div> <div class="field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/651" hreflang="en">ask dr betty</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/681" hreflang="en">pussy pride</a></div> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-blog-comments--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-blog-comments.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-blog-comments.html.twig x field--comment.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--comment.html.twig' --> <section class="field field--name-field-blog-comments field--type-comment field--label-hidden comment-wrapper"> </section> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--comment.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-promote-to-popular-posts--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig x field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig * field--boolean.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig' --> Thu, 09 May 2013 12:25:58 +0000 Betty Dodson 3706 at https://www.dodsonandross.com https://www.dodsonandross.com/articles/im-too-young-gray-pussy-hair#comments I Put My Clit on the Line....Literally https://www.dodsonandross.com/blogs/carlin-ross/2011/11/i-put-my-clit-lineliterally <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--title--blog.html.twig x field--node--title.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--title.html.twig * field--string.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--title.html.twig' --> <span class="field field--name-title field--type-string field--label-hidden">I Put My Clit on the Line....Literally</span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--title.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--uid--blog.html.twig x field--node--uid.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--uid.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--uid.html.twig' --> <span class="field field--name-uid field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'username' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/user/username.html.twig' --> <span lang="" about="/user/106" typeof="schema:Person" property="schema:name" datatype="">Carlin Ross</span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/user/username.html.twig' --> </span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--uid.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--created--blog.html.twig x field--node--created.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--created.html.twig * field--created.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--created.html.twig' --> <span class="field field--name-created field--type-created field--label-hidden"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'time' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/time.html.twig' --> <time datetime="2011-11-15T21:25:41+00:00" title="Tuesday, November 15, 2011 - 21:25" class="datetime">Tue, 11/15/2011 - 21:25</time> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/time.html.twig' --> </span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--created.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'links__node' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: x links--node.html.twig x links--node.html.twig * links.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/content/links--node.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/content/links--node.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-components--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-components.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-components.html.twig * field--entity-reference-revisions.html.twig x field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <div class="field field--name-field-components field--type-entity-reference-revisions field--label-hidden field__items"> <div class="field__item"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'paragraph' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * paragraph--image--default.html.twig * paragraph--image.html.twig * paragraph--default.html.twig x paragraph.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--image paragraph--view-mode--default"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--paragraph--field-image--image.html.twig * field--paragraph--field-image.html.twig * field--paragraph--image.html.twig * field--field-image.html.twig * field--image.html.twig x field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <div class="field field--name-field-image field--type-image field--label-hidden field__item"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image_formatter' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-formatter.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image_style' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-style.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image.html.twig' --> <img src="/sites/default/files/styles/webp/public/2018-07/rocknroll.jpg.webp?itok=U4J5RvR_" width="551" height="346" alt="" loading="lazy" typeof="foaf:Image" class="image-style-webp" /> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-style.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-formatter.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> </div> <div class="field__item"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'paragraph' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary---default.html.twig * paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * paragraph--default.html.twig x paragraph.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--atom-rtf-with-summary- paragraph--view-mode--default"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig * field--paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig x field--text-with-summary.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> <div class="clearfix text-formatted field field--name-field-atom-rtf-with-summary field--type-text-with-summary field--label-hidden field__item"><p>Anyone who follows us on facebook/youtube knows that we were in Oslo, Norway last August.&nbsp; We were sworn to secrecy and couldn't reveal the details of our "secret sex mission"...until now.</p> <p>Betty had been invited by NRK television to do a private session on camera.&nbsp; We doubted whether they'd show Betty's work on network television.&nbsp; We'd filmed private sessions with History channel, the BBC and several other stations but none of it made it past the suits to broadcast.&nbsp; But who doesn't want to get the hell out of nyc in August?</p> <p>When we sat down for our first meeting before taping, they explained how the young reality star who'd been slated to have the session with Betty was having second thoughts.&nbsp; They were going to show a vulva and orgasm on television for the first time ever in history and she didn't want it to be hers.&nbsp; I'm not sure why I didn't pick up on it but they were angling to have me do the session with Betty.&nbsp; When they finally asked, I was a bit shocked.&nbsp; We were in Scandinavia the bastion of liberalism.&nbsp; How could she have a problem being nude or sexual on camera.&nbsp; That's when it hit me: they may have sex ed in schools but they still have genital shame.&nbsp; Teaching kids about safe sex isn't teaching them about female genitals and orgasm.</p> <p>I accepted.&nbsp; And the interesting part was that I'd never had a session with Betty.&nbsp; How could I be working with Betty for three years and not experienced her work first hand?&nbsp; When we first met, we flew to Copenhagen and did a Bodysex group but never anything one-on-one.&nbsp; And I knew that Betty was critical of my tension orgasms.&nbsp; This would be interesting.</p> <p>Aslaug, our producer, picked us up at our hotel - we talked the entire 20 minute ride to our location.&nbsp; She'd taken the job with NRK under the express condition that they'd show a vulva on television.&nbsp; She'd fought hard for it.&nbsp; There was no way I would let her down. When we arrived, we realized that it was an all-female crew.&nbsp; Yes!&nbsp; Each woman was so warm and understood what we'd committed to do that day.</p> <p>Genital show and tell - that was a piece of cake.&nbsp; Then it was time for the real part of the session.&nbsp; I laid down on the massage table.&nbsp; The camera was literally at the end of the table between my legs.&nbsp; Betty and our reality star were on either side of me.&nbsp; As Betty took me through the movements: breathing, rocking my pelvis, squeezing my pc muscle and vibrating my clitoris I started to tense up.&nbsp; I was following my tension orgasm routine.&nbsp; Betty rubbed my belly and told me to relax - not to tense up like I'd always done.&nbsp; She got between my legs - barbell in hand - and started moving it in and out of my vagina at a slight angle.&nbsp; Instead of tensing up, I let the orgasm come to me and rode the wave.&nbsp; I was sweating, breathing hard, and came my face off.&nbsp; I looked at the reality star and said, "that's an orgasm".&nbsp;</p> <p>I will admit that when Aslaug emailed that the episode would run tonight I got a bit light-headed.&nbsp; My mind was reeling...how would it be received...what if it's not a big deal...what if it is a big deal...what if I didn't look good (I didn't even groom)?&nbsp; I braced myself and watched the episode - Our segments run at 22:15, 33:15, and 37:46 and they're in english (you can view the episode under "My Orgasm" in our video section).</p> <p>My vulva is displayed in all its glory.&nbsp; I have an orgasm on camera.&nbsp; More importantly, all of Betty's information is right there for woman across the globe.&nbsp; There isn't anything I'd change.&nbsp; Congratulations to Betty, Aslaug, NRK and the goddess of sexual love and abundance.&nbsp;&nbsp; I'm so proud to have had the opportunity to be apart of this moment.&nbsp; I'm so proud of myself for having the courage to move past sexual guilt, body image, and plain old fear.</p> <p>I put my clit on the line...literally.</p></div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: x field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-category.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-category.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig' --> <div class="articles__categories"> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--card paragraph--view-mode--default simple-band transparent"> <div class="field__item"> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--title paragraph--view-mode--default"> <div class="field field--name-field-title field--type-string field--label-hidden field__item">Mentions And Related Topics</div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="field field--name-field-category field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/articles/category/how-orgasm" hreflang="en">How to Orgasm</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/articles/category/bettys-rock-n-roll-orgasm-technique" hreflang="en">Betty&#039;s Rock n Roll Orgasm Technique</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/articles/category/combination-orgasm" hreflang="en">Combination Orgasm</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/articles/category/press" hreflang="en">Press</a></div> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-tags--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-tags.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-tags.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig x field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <div class="field field--name-field-tags field--type-entity-reference field--label-above"> <div class="field__label">Cloud Tags</div> <div class="field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/726" hreflang="en">Betty&#039;s barbell</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/661" hreflang="en">combination orgasm</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/731" hreflang="en">genital show and tell</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/681" hreflang="en">pussy pride</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/741" hreflang="en">vagina</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/776" hreflang="en">vibrator</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/636" hreflang="en">vulva</a></div> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-blog-comments--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-blog-comments.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-blog-comments.html.twig x field--comment.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--comment.html.twig' --> <section class="field field--name-field-blog-comments field--type-comment field--label-hidden comment-wrapper"> </section> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--comment.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-promote-to-popular-posts--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig x field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig * field--boolean.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig' --> Tue, 15 Nov 2011 21:25:41 +0000 Carlin Ross 291 at https://www.dodsonandross.com https://www.dodsonandross.com/blogs/carlin-ross/2011/11/i-put-my-clit-lineliterally#comments Your Body is Yours. Your Womb is Yours. Pleasure is Your Birthright. https://www.dodsonandross.com/articles/your-body-yours-your-womb-yours-pleasure-your-birthright <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--title--blog.html.twig x field--node--title.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--title.html.twig * field--string.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--title.html.twig' --> <span class="field field--name-title field--type-string field--label-hidden">Your Body is Yours. Your Womb is Yours. Pleasure is Your Birthright. </span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--title.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--uid--blog.html.twig x field--node--uid.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--uid.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--uid.html.twig' --> <span class="field field--name-uid field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'username' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/user/username.html.twig' --> <span lang="" about="/user/311" typeof="schema:Person" property="schema:name" datatype="">Lawrence Lanoff</span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/user/username.html.twig' --> </span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--uid.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--created--blog.html.twig x field--node--created.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--created.html.twig * field--created.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--created.html.twig' --> <span class="field field--name-created field--type-created field--label-hidden"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'time' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/time.html.twig' --> <time datetime="2011-05-11T14:09:38+00:00" title="Wednesday, May 11, 2011 - 14:09" class="datetime">Wed, 05/11/2011 - 14:09</time> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/time.html.twig' --> </span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--created.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'links__node' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: x links--node.html.twig x links--node.html.twig * links.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/content/links--node.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/content/links--node.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-components--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-components.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-components.html.twig * field--entity-reference-revisions.html.twig x field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <div class="field field--name-field-components field--type-entity-reference-revisions field--label-hidden field__items"> <div class="field__item"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'paragraph' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * paragraph--image--default.html.twig * paragraph--image.html.twig * paragraph--default.html.twig x paragraph.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--image paragraph--view-mode--default"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--paragraph--field-image--image.html.twig * field--paragraph--field-image.html.twig * field--paragraph--image.html.twig * field--field-image.html.twig * field--image.html.twig x field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <div class="field field--name-field-image field--type-image field--label-hidden field__item"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image_formatter' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-formatter.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image_style' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-style.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image.html.twig' --> <img src="/sites/default/files/styles/webp/public/2019-02/badodson_064-web_0.jpg.webp?itok=x9Rm_50g" width="640" height="404" alt="" loading="lazy" typeof="foaf:Image" class="image-style-webp" /> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-style.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-formatter.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> </div> <div class="field__item"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'paragraph' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary---default.html.twig * paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * paragraph--default.html.twig x paragraph.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--atom-rtf-with-summary- paragraph--view-mode--default"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig * field--paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig x field--text-with-summary.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> <div class="clearfix text-formatted field field--name-field-atom-rtf-with-summary field--type-text-with-summary field--label-hidden field__item"><p>On the heals of the Royal Wedding, it occurs to me that women around the world are in a mental prison, their pleasure held captive by unattainable fairy tales.</p> <p>This past Monday, I lead a private retreat for women only, and I focused on breaking free of the fairy tales that keep women down.</p> <p>Take “Prince Charming” for example. This mythical image is really a story about how a single woman is supposed to obediently behave in her mind and body. Notice how she timidly and painfully lives in an ivory tower - separated from life - waiting for a prince to rescue her.</p> <p>In other words, the prince has all the keys to her happiness. Without him, she is nothing, she is trapped. Furthermore, he is the doorway to her freely expressed sexuality. Notice that, if she is pure, virginal, sweet, sincere - and hasn’t already been fucked - then he will come for her. He will save her. If she is soiled and dirty, she risks being alone forever.</p> <p>If he doesn’t come for her, then she is left with the feeling that there is something wrong with her; she is soiled in her soul.</p> <p>I’m sure you’re thinking, ”this doesn’t apply to me,” but that’s because you don’t understand how your brain works. There is part of your brain that’s dumb. Really dumb. The dumb brain is the cave brain, and it lives life as if we were living 150,000 years ago. The dumb brain believes deeply whatever mommy and daddy told you. If mommy left you with the impression that sex is bad, evil, or dirty, then the dumb brain takes it as truth. If mommy said, “one day your prince will come”, then the dumb brain painfully waits.</p> <p>The effects of these stories are subtle to your rational brain, but the dumb brain takes them as law. As a result, the abused and repressed become the self-abusers, and self oppressors, obediently enforcing society’s rules and laws about female sexuality - through myths, stories, and religious belief.</p> <p>One way out, is to begin to notice the frames that keep you in mental prison. By observing confusion or emotional conflict inside your body, you can begin to set yourself free.</p> <p>Notice where you feel shame, and restricted pleasure in your mind and body. Somewhere in there - in the midst of the turmoil, questioning, and conflict - your dumb brain is in charge.</p> <p>Because the dumb brain is so dumb, little fairy tales easily take us prisoner. It’s important to question - and even categorically reject - the myths that hold you back in your life.</p> <p>Your body is yours. Your womb is yours. Pleasure is your birthright. It’s spring. It’s time for a change!</p></div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: x field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-category.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-category.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig' --> <div class="articles__categories"> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--card paragraph--view-mode--default simple-band transparent"> <div class="field__item"> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--title paragraph--view-mode--default"> <div class="field field--name-field-title field--type-string field--label-hidden field__item">Mentions And Related Topics</div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="field field--name-field-category field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/articles/category/body-image" hreflang="en">Body Image</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/articles/category/overcoming-shame-trauma" hreflang="en">Overcoming Shame &amp; Trauma</a></div> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-tags--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-tags.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-tags.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig x field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <div class="field field--name-field-tags field--type-entity-reference field--label-above"> <div class="field__label">Cloud Tags</div> <div class="field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/666" hreflang="en">pleasure empowers</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/681" hreflang="en">pussy pride</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/671" hreflang="en">self pleasure</a></div> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-blog-comments--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-blog-comments.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-blog-comments.html.twig x field--comment.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--comment.html.twig' --> <section class="field field--name-field-blog-comments field--type-comment field--label-hidden comment-wrapper"> </section> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--comment.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-promote-to-popular-posts--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig x field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig * field--boolean.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig' --> Wed, 11 May 2011 14:09:38 +0000 Lawrence Lanoff 4476 at https://www.dodsonandross.com https://www.dodsonandross.com/articles/your-body-yours-your-womb-yours-pleasure-your-birthright#comments Hate My Chubby Pubic Mound https://www.dodsonandross.com/articles/hate-my-chubby-pubic-mound <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--title--blog.html.twig x field--node--title.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--title.html.twig * field--string.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--title.html.twig' --> <span class="field field--name-title field--type-string field--label-hidden">Hate My Chubby Pubic Mound</span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--title.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--uid--blog.html.twig x field--node--uid.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--uid.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--uid.html.twig' --> <span class="field field--name-uid field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'username' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/user/username.html.twig' --> <span lang="" about="/user/121" typeof="schema:Person" property="schema:name" datatype="">Betty Dodson</span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/user/username.html.twig' --> </span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--uid.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--created--blog.html.twig x field--node--created.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--created.html.twig * field--created.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--created.html.twig' --> <span class="field field--name-created field--type-created field--label-hidden"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'time' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/time.html.twig' --> <time datetime="2011-01-12T14:11:59+00:00" title="Wednesday, January 12, 2011 - 14:11" class="datetime">Wed, 01/12/2011 - 14:11</time> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/time.html.twig' --> </span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--created.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'links__node' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: x links--node.html.twig x links--node.html.twig * links.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/content/links--node.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/content/links--node.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-components--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-components.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-components.html.twig * field--entity-reference-revisions.html.twig x field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <div class="field field--name-field-components field--type-entity-reference-revisions field--label-hidden field__items"> <div class="field__item"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'paragraph' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * paragraph--image--default.html.twig * paragraph--image.html.twig * paragraph--default.html.twig x paragraph.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--image paragraph--view-mode--default"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--paragraph--field-image--image.html.twig * field--paragraph--field-image.html.twig * field--paragraph--image.html.twig * field--field-image.html.twig * field--image.html.twig x field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <div class="field field--name-field-image field--type-image field--label-hidden field__item"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image_formatter' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-formatter.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image_style' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-style.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image.html.twig' --> <img src="/sites/default/files/styles/webp/public/2018-08/lisa12.13.jpg.webp?itok=g5eYLAcE" width="640" height="344" alt="" loading="lazy" typeof="foaf:Image" class="image-style-webp" /> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-style.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-formatter.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> </div> <div class="field__item"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'paragraph' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary---default.html.twig * paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * paragraph--default.html.twig x paragraph.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--atom-rtf-with-summary- paragraph--view-mode--default"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig * field--paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig x field--text-with-summary.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> <div class="clearfix text-formatted field field--name-field-atom-rtf-with-summary field--type-text-with-summary field--label-hidden field__item"><p>Dear Betty,</p> <p>I'm 22 years old. I'm a nurse and have never been heavy a day in my life. I'm 6 feet and 1 inches tall and weigh 136 pounds.</p> <p>But I think my Vagina is abnormal. I have a very chubby pubic mound meaning lots of extra flesh" My boyfriend calls it my bumper'LOL I also have very thick lips that completely cover my clit. I've had multiple sexual partners and all of them had never seen a vagina like mine. Is this normal, or is there something wrong????</p> <p>Please let me know.<br> ~K</p> <p>Dear K,</p> <p>Please go to our genital art gallery or look at my drawing of vulva's. Before you start worrying about whether or not your sex organ is normal, let me encourage you to use a proper name. The vagina is the birth canal which leads everyone to believe that procreative sex will give a woman an orgasm. Wrong! Very few women come from a penis thrusting inside a vagina. So can we agree to call the female sex organ a Vulva?</p> <p>Now on to your concern. You have a darling "pillow pussy" that is treasured by many. Or a vulva pillow. Thick inner lips and a hood that covers your clitoris is what most women have. You are not only normal but sexually endowed with a gorgeous sex organ. Please make an effort to appreciate and enjoy your divine Vulva.</p> <p>Dr. Betty</p></div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: x field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-category.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-category.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig' --> <div class="articles__categories"> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--card paragraph--view-mode--default simple-band transparent"> <div class="field__item"> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--title paragraph--view-mode--default"> <div class="field field--name-field-title field--type-string field--label-hidden field__item">Mentions And Related Topics</div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="field field--name-field-category field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/articles/category/body-image" hreflang="en">Body Image</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/articles/category/your-vulva" hreflang="en">Your Vulva</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/articles/category/vulva-styles" hreflang="en">Vulva Styles</a></div> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-tags--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-tags.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-tags.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig x field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <div class="field field--name-field-tags field--type-entity-reference field--label-above"> <div class="field__label">Cloud Tags</div> <div class="field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/651" hreflang="en">ask dr betty</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/946" hreflang="en">Pillow Pussy</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/681" hreflang="en">pussy pride</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/636" hreflang="en">vulva</a></div> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-blog-comments--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-blog-comments.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-blog-comments.html.twig x field--comment.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--comment.html.twig' --> <section class="field field--name-field-blog-comments field--type-comment field--label-hidden comment-wrapper"> </section> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--comment.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-promote-to-popular-posts--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig x field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig * field--boolean.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig' --> Wed, 12 Jan 2011 14:11:59 +0000 Betty Dodson 3736 at https://www.dodsonandross.com https://www.dodsonandross.com/articles/hate-my-chubby-pubic-mound#comments I Have Extra Skin On My Perineum https://www.dodsonandross.com/articles/i-have-extra-skin-my-perineum <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--title--blog.html.twig x field--node--title.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--title.html.twig * field--string.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--title.html.twig' --> <span class="field field--name-title field--type-string field--label-hidden">I Have Extra Skin On My Perineum</span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--title.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--uid--blog.html.twig x field--node--uid.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--uid.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--uid.html.twig' --> <span class="field field--name-uid field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'username' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/user/username.html.twig' --> <span lang="" about="/user/121" typeof="schema:Person" property="schema:name" datatype="">Betty Dodson</span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/user/username.html.twig' --> </span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--uid.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--created--blog.html.twig x field--node--created.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--created.html.twig * field--created.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--created.html.twig' --> <span class="field field--name-created field--type-created field--label-hidden"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'time' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/time.html.twig' --> <time datetime="2010-07-20T14:28:25+00:00" title="Tuesday, July 20, 2010 - 14:28" class="datetime">Tue, 07/20/2010 - 14:28</time> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/time.html.twig' --> </span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--created.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'links__node' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: x links--node.html.twig x links--node.html.twig * links.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/content/links--node.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/content/links--node.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-components--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-components.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-components.html.twig * field--entity-reference-revisions.html.twig x field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <div class="field field--name-field-components field--type-entity-reference-revisions field--label-hidden field__items"> <div class="field__item"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'paragraph' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * paragraph--image--default.html.twig * paragraph--image.html.twig * paragraph--default.html.twig x paragraph.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--image paragraph--view-mode--default"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--paragraph--field-image--image.html.twig * field--paragraph--field-image.html.twig * field--paragraph--image.html.twig * field--field-image.html.twig * field--image.html.twig x field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <div class="field field--name-field-image field--type-image field--label-hidden field__item"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image_formatter' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-formatter.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image_style' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-style.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'image' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image.html.twig' --> <img src="/sites/default/files/styles/webp/public/2018-08/vixen_0.jpg.webp?itok=x_s1XR14" width="640" height="312" alt="" loading="lazy" typeof="foaf:Image" class="image-style-webp" /> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-style.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/image-formatter.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> </div> <div class="field__item"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'paragraph' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary---default.html.twig * paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * paragraph--default.html.twig x paragraph.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--atom-rtf-with-summary- paragraph--view-mode--default"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig * field--paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig x field--text-with-summary.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> <div class="clearfix text-formatted field field--name-field-atom-rtf-with-summary field--type-text-with-summary field--label-hidden field__item"><p>Dear Dr. Betty,</p> <p>I've seen porn. I've seen naked woman, etc. Every woman's pussy and anus is different and that is a definite fact. But...I have a very unusual perineum.</p> <p>The skin sticks out. It's about an inch long, and I can literally pull on it and it stretches out about an inch as well. Now this make me feel very uncomfortable. Is it normal? My fiance says he doesn't care. He see's it as my way of being different. But to me, it's annoying and disgusting. Is there a way to get it removed? Should I? Is it normal? Does it have some significant factor? I just don't feel comfortable with it. Help...</p> <p>Dear F,</p> <p>There is no such thing as "normal" there are only averages. Listen to your fiance and get over feeling uncomfortable. I'm curious if what you call the perineum is the space between the bottom of your vaginal opening and your anus. If so, stop pulling on it because it only upsets you.</p> <p>Although I've never personally seen what you are talking about, I'd love to have you send me a photo. Then I could respond in more detail. My first thought was that you'd confused your inner labia with the perineum. Inner lips can easily be stretched out to four inches or more. A woman in one of my workshops could actually tie her inner lips together! The entire group was impressed and we applauded. Just avoid surgery. Too many women end up very unhappy with the results, but we don't hear about them because of the shame factor. After all, it's elected surgery and it's embarrassing to think we did it to ourselves.</p> <p>Dr. Betty</p></div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: x field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-category.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-category.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig' --> <div class="articles__categories"> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--card paragraph--view-mode--default simple-band transparent"> <div class="field__item"> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--title paragraph--view-mode--default"> <div class="field field--name-field-title field--type-string field--label-hidden field__item">Mentions And Related Topics</div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="field field--name-field-category field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/articles/category/body-image" hreflang="en">Body Image</a></div> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-tags--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-tags.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-tags.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig x field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <div class="field field--name-field-tags field--type-entity-reference field--label-above"> <div class="field__label">Cloud Tags</div> <div class="field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/651" hreflang="en">ask dr betty</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/771" hreflang="en">perineum</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/681" hreflang="en">pussy pride</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/636" hreflang="en">vulva</a></div> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-blog-comments--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-blog-comments.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-blog-comments.html.twig x field--comment.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--comment.html.twig' --> <section class="field field--name-field-blog-comments field--type-comment field--label-hidden comment-wrapper"> </section> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--comment.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-promote-to-popular-posts--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig x field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig * field--boolean.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig' --> Tue, 20 Jul 2010 14:28:25 +0000 Betty Dodson 1526 at https://www.dodsonandross.com https://www.dodsonandross.com/articles/i-have-extra-skin-my-perineum#comments Guys Say My Clitoris is Too Big https://www.dodsonandross.com/articles/guys-say-my-clitoris-too-big <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--title--blog.html.twig x field--node--title.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--title.html.twig * field--string.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--title.html.twig' --> <span class="field field--name-title field--type-string field--label-hidden">Guys Say My Clitoris is Too Big</span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--title.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--uid--blog.html.twig x field--node--uid.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--uid.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--uid.html.twig' --> <span class="field field--name-uid field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'username' --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 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14:38" class="datetime">Wed, 08/12/2009 - 14:38</time> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/time.html.twig' --> </span> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--node--created.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'links__node' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: x links--node.html.twig x links--node.html.twig * links.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/content/links--node.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/content/links--node.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-components--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-components.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-components.html.twig * field--entity-reference-revisions.html.twig x field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <div class="field 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'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> </div> <div class="field__item"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'paragraph' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary---default.html.twig * paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * paragraph--default.html.twig x paragraph.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--atom-rtf-with-summary- paragraph--view-mode--default"> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--paragraph--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig * field--paragraph--atom-rtf-with-summary-.html.twig * field--field-atom-rtf-with-summary.html.twig x field--text-with-summary.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> <div class="clearfix text-formatted field field--name-field-atom-rtf-with-summary field--type-text-with-summary field--label-hidden field__item"><p>Dear Dr. Betty,</p> <p>I'm 20 yrs old. I been feeling really self conscious about my vagina or clit in particular. I have been told by a few sex partners that my clit is "huge"...I'm too embarrassed to ask my GYN. But it pisses me off/hurts my self esteem when guys say this to me.. Do you think I should get that surgery?</p> <p>What do you think I should do, if anything?</p> <p>Thankx</p> <p>Dear Self Conscious,</p> <p>I think you should educate yourself about female sexuality. Your vagina is the birth canal. So I suggest women use the term vulva when referring to our sex organs. There is no surgery that can reduce the size of your clitoris unless you want it removed which is called "Female Genital Mutilation". This is done to young women in some (Muslim) countries so they will not experience pleasure from orgasms.</p> <p>You may be referring to your inner lips. There is information all over the website about this stupid unnecessary and possibly dangerous procedure. They are also part of our arousal as they fill up with blood and get erect when we are turned on. If you are indeed referring to your clitoris, I suggest you consider what a guy would think if he had a large penis? Trust me, he would take great pride in it. Why are so many women the victim of every man's opinion? Time for you to grow up and take control of your life. Look at the vulva drawings on the site or in my book "Sex for One." Go to our genital art gallery and observe the vast variation in our sex organs.</p> <p>Dr. Betty</p></div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--text-with-summary.html.twig' --> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'modules/contrib/paragraphs/templates/paragraph.html.twig' --> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: x field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-category.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-category.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig' --> <div class="articles__categories"> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--card paragraph--view-mode--default simple-band transparent"> <div class="field__item"> <div class="paragraph paragraph--type--title paragraph--view-mode--default"> <div class="field field--name-field-title field--type-string field--label-hidden field__item">Mentions And Related Topics</div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="field field--name-field-category field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/articles/category/body-image" hreflang="en">Body Image</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/articles/category/vulva-styles" hreflang="en">Vulva Styles</a></div> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--node--field-category--blog.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-tags--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-tags.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-tags.html.twig * field--entity-reference.html.twig x field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <div class="field field--name-field-tags field--type-entity-reference field--label-above"> <div class="field__label">Cloud Tags</div> <div class="field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/651" hreflang="en">ask dr betty</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/691" hreflang="en">clitoris</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/681" hreflang="en">pussy pride</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/636" hreflang="en">vulva</a></div> </div> </div> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-blog-comments--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-blog-comments.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig * field--field-blog-comments.html.twig x field--comment.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--comment.html.twig' --> <section class="field field--name-field-blog-comments field--type-comment field--label-hidden comment-wrapper"> </section> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/contrib/classy/templates/field/field--comment.html.twig' --> <!-- THEME DEBUG --> <!-- THEME HOOK: 'field' --> <!-- FILE NAME SUGGESTIONS: * field--node--field-promote-to-popular-posts--blog.html.twig * field--node--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig * field--node--blog.html.twig x field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig * field--boolean.html.twig * field.html.twig --> <!-- BEGIN OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig' --> <!-- END OUTPUT from 'themes/custom/dodson/templates/field/field--field-promote-to-popular-posts.html.twig' --> Wed, 12 Aug 2009 14:38:33 +0000 Betty Dodson 1531 at https://www.dodsonandross.com https://www.dodsonandross.com/articles/guys-say-my-clitoris-too-big#comments