The good news is that your clitoris still functions.
During high arousal, your uterus lifts and there is a "deep spot" near your cervix that is quite pleasurable.
When we aren't wet due to nerves or whatever, always use some kind of organic massage oil for all manual touching of genitals.
As a rule, mucous membrane heals rather quickly.
Stimulating your clitoris during intercourse is what I recommend.
Our ultimate preference for genitals is organic oil - almond, apricot, jojoba or coconut.
As long as you are young, healthy and clean you need not worry about how you smell or taste.
Nearly all vaginal entrances are small and/or partially hidden.
Having abdominal pains before or after intercourse is NOT normal.
Not all women's vaginas pulsate as obviously as your wife's does. It's a question of degree.