Teens Should be Having Outercourse Not Intercourse

Fri, 05/11/2012 - 14:45
Submitted by Carlin Ross
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Teens need to get beyond procreative sex.

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Thu, 09/20/2012 - 16:26

I think this video has terrific advice for teenage girls, especially the focus on what was called heavy petting when I was young.
That said, I first fucked when I was 16. Yes, I was too young but I seemed to know more about sex than my partner (whom, by the way, I am married to), and I think my eagerness for sex had a lot to do with the desire for intense touch. My first orgasm came in my sleep about a year later (I've continued to have them throughout my life, very, very nice). I never masturbated when I was a child, masturbated in an unsatisfactory way in my 30s, and only after getting a vibrator recently have I enjoyed masturbation.
Then I had an orgasm while fucking not long after my first sleep orgasm. Yes, I kid you not, and I'm beginning to realize that I must be a freak. I normally orgasm while fucking because I like the indirect pressure on my clitoris. The best position has varied over the years, and has ended up being him on top because I am so crippled from sports injuries. I only liked a lot of direct pressure when I was eating a lot of tofu (!), and I can only think it was because of the phyto-estrogens somehow desensitizing me.
I love the vibrator because I put the end in my vagina, then curl it around so it stimulates my clitoris but not directly (labia protecting clitoris). When my badly injured back was functioning beautifully this past spring, I was getting hot just from looking at men's hands or arms. My husband works long shifts at night, so I had to learn to pleasure myself, and I can only thank god for vibrators!
One question for Betty: I watched you draw the internal clitoris, and I want to know what part of me it is that gets stimulated that feels very deep inside me. It can be someone's hand on my neck, it can be from having my breasts fondled, it can be from looking at a sexually aroused man. It feels very different from feeling myself get wet and excited.