Sex Sensation

Fri, 11/13/2015 - 14:41
Submitted by Carlin Ross
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Don't label it "pain" when it's a new sensation.

Sensations.

Wed, 12/02/2015 - 02:32
Anonymous

"We're all so wonderfully different."

I couldn't agree more with that sentiment, NLH.
I am in sync with Betty and Carlin's video postings because I felt myriad new sexual sensations with my partner in New York City this past Thanksgiving weekend - the pleasures were new; sometimes ticklish; sometimes there was 'too much' pleasure; at times humorous; sensual; and it was all good.

It's incredible to me how diverse the sensations are! And, as Betty said, the body will need time to get used to them. Great post, NLH and B&C!

Vince 

Painful

Sat, 11/14/2015 - 13:29

Totally agree that we need to be open to exploring new feelings and
sensations, and shouldn't rush to label new sensations but...

Sometimes things do hurt and we need to have the self-confidence to stop. We need to be able to take our time, work out what's not working, add more lube, whatever.

Good sex doesn't ever need to feel bad.

With partnersex, the key issue is trust. We need to know that our partner will pause, to allow us to consider this new feeling and sensation. We need to have confidence that we can set the pace and take our time to explore.

Sometimes partnersex just isn't the right place for that. We all need to be able to say "no", let's stop that just for now and come back to it another time, maybe after we've had time to explore on our own through masturbation but maybe never.

Because sometimes it's just not right for us. For example, in her last video, Betty was clear that oral has never been for her - we all need to be allowed our own preferences, our own desires.

We're all so wonderfully different.