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It's Not an Orgasm - I Didn't Ejaculate

Fri, 07/22/2011 - 15:13
Submitted by Carlin Ross
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Betty's most dreaded question - stop modeling female sexual response after male sexual response. Women are wired differently

Life changing information!

Fri, 12/23/2011 - 15:12
Anonymous

I can't believe at 51 that I'm learning something so life changing about my own sexuality! Apparently I am a female ejaculator.  I was one of those women that was so embarrassed that I wet the bed that I've been tensing up trying to keep it from happening again. Once I found out that the feelings I had and the fluid that gushed from me was this phenomenan of female ejaculation and I wasn't wetting the bed, I've been learning to embrace it and relax and explore this experience. 
What surprises me here is the wild contradiction in information about what is normal.  While I was mortified about my lack of bladder control when I came, I also see some people think they're not normal if they don't ejaculate with orgasm. This is a HUGE difference in interpretation.  While one person is still trying for the elusive orgasm that squirts another is becoming celibate over embarrassment that she's wetting the bed! 
I actually got emotional when I found out I was 'normal'. My husband and I went out and bought a new toy especially designed to play with the g-spot and started exploring my new found freedom.  Wow!  Why did it take so long!  I love my 50's more all the time!
Just found your website today as I was searching for more on this subject.  I have always appreciated your frank discussions on sexuality when I've seen you on various tv programs.  I am bookmarking your site for future perusal as I have more time.
Thanks Betty, I love you!