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I Have Sex with Guys But Fantasize About Women
Posted on the May 09, 2011 by Betty Dodson
I've only had sex with guys but I've always had this fantasy about fucking another woman. So I've tried to kind of invite other girls at parties to having sex, but they've always said no. I guess I'm...
Related Tags: Fantasy | Sexual Identity/Orientation
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I Could See Her Looking at My Face Like She was Trying to See the Gay
Posted on the Apr 30, 2011 by jexhibitionism
Okay so I gotta agree with Betty and Carlin. Labels kinda suck. Sexuality is grey, I’m sure everyone bends a little bit here and there. But the fact is that most of the time I bend toward the ladies...
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Is My Boyfriend Gay?
Posted on the Apr 26, 2011 by Betty Dodson
I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 5 years and we are very open to each other about sex and our fantasies. He told me that before we met he had sex with a transvestite. From what I...
Related Tags: Intercourse | Sexual Identity/Orientation
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Outing Cavemen
Posted on the Apr 25, 2011 by LilithLand
This guy is so right on. We'd rather "out" gay caveman than talk about gay bashing. From Bryan Safi's That's Gay series:
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Betweeners & the Two-Party Gender System
Posted on the Apr 12, 2011 by Marisa Black
"Today I got confused looks in the doctor's office waiting room." "Those looks where they can't tell if you are male or female?" "Yeah. It's mostly old people or little kids. Today it was people from...
Related Tags: Bisexuality | Sex Styles & Gender Roles | Sexual Identity/Orientation | Transgender & Intersex
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What Stuck Out to Me was Her Reaction to My "Sexual Orientation"
Posted on the Apr 04, 2011 by VirginMonoblogger
So... I hate when bloggers are all "Ah, something happened. I'm going to hint at it and not actually say what it was... But it was really bad and I don't wanna share right now, or maybe ever." But,...
Related Tags: Sex Styles & Gender Roles | Sexual Identity/Orientation
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I Tell One Person & Suddenly I’m Out
Posted on the Mar 22, 2011 by jexhibitionism
“So Jex…. just so you know.. half the store knows already.” My eyes pop wide open in surprise but thankfully I’m turned away from him toward the sink, washing my hands. “Oh.. Uh. Okay. Whatever.”...
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Does High Testosterone Make You Attracted to Women?
Posted on the Mar 21, 2011 by Betty Dodson
Hi Dr.Betty, Last year, i started being attracted to women. First it was the boobs...i couldn't stop thinking of them..then i thought of sexually pleasuring them. I began having fantasies about girl...
Related Tags: Bisexuality | Sexual Identity/Orientation
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You Can’t Tell I’m Gay From Just Meeting Me; Therefore I Must be in the Closet?
Posted on the Mar 17, 2011 by jexhibitionism
So I came out at work. To that guy I was flirting with, of course. I guess after working with him again I realized.. he’s cute and all, but not my type. Plus he’s younger, and while age itself is...
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How Much Do Genitals Matter?
Posted on the Mar 17, 2011 by VirginMonoblogger
Scenario: You're in a five year relationship with someone. You feel like you fit together perfectly and you can get through anything. You've held off on sex, but you've connected in every other way...
Related Tags: Sex Styles & Gender Roles | Sexual Identity/Orientation | Virginity & First Penetration Sex
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Lesbian Porn is My Preference but I Have a Boyfriend. Am I Gay?
Posted on the Mar 12, 2011 by Betty Dodson
Hi Betty! Today is actually the first time I've seen one of your videos and I've been watching them all day. You are amazing! But here's my problem i am happily engaged to an amazing man who turns me...
Related Tags: Pornography | Sexual Identity/Orientation
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I was Perfectly Happy Being 99% Gay. But 98% Gay? Are You Kidding Me?
Posted on the Mar 11, 2011 by jexhibitionism
Here’s the deal. I think I’m a bit of a cliche. I’m turning into the kind of girl that Dan Savage is always going on about. The lesbians, the almost-lesbians, the bisexuals, the almost-straight-girls...
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Lady Gaga Drops Target Deal Because They Fund Anti-Gay Politicians
Posted on the Mar 11, 2011 by Carlin Ross
I love a celebrity with a big clit and Lady Gaga earned my respect this week.  She just ended a lucrative marketing deal with Target over gay rights.  The singer's decision was based on...
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If I Fantasize About Women Am I Gay?
Posted on the Mar 09, 2011 by Betty Dodson
dear betty and carlin, i love your video's they have changed my life and taught me alot about sexuality.  i feel good about sex i love learning something new about it weather it be the phyiscal...
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Relief and Release: Responding to a Mormon Virgin's Visit to Planned Parenthood
Posted on the Mar 07, 2011 by Marisa Black
When I saw Nicole Hardy's piece in the New York Times, Single, Female, Mormon, Alone, about the author's visit to Planned Parenthood as a 35-year-old virgin, my chest expanded with recognition. Yes,...
Related Tags: Sexual Empowerment | Sexual Identity/Orientation
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